Confidence in dating is a trained response, not a personality trait. The speaker teaches the 5 Second Reset: notice pressure, pause, adjust your posture and tone, then respond with wit. Practice this method to become more engaging.
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So your date asks you a hard question you aren't prepared for. Old you rushes to answer and then overexplains until they lose interest. Stop saying, "I'm not confidence," 'cause confidence isn't personality. Confidence is competence. You don't need confidence if you're competent. It's trained response under pressure. See, the 5 Second Reset teaches you to notice, pause, adjust your posture, adjust your tone, and respond. The new you smiles, pauses, answers slowly with something witty and insightful, with a different kind of energy. Then ask them questions from a place of curiosity. You learn that with practice and getting the reps in. See, everyone wants to feel like a partner knows and understands them like no one else understands them, and they want you to be that special person. So can you pause for 2 seconds before answering? Yes. Can you ask them questions from a place of curiosity? So can you learn them better than anyone ever has? Absolutely. If that guy over there and that girl over there can meet someone new and feel like they've known each other forever, even though they just met, and can connect at a deeper level than anyone ever has felt in just a few short hours, why not you? Saturday Reset is where we train your competence live, free. Comment reset and we'll send you the invite.