Dr. Aravind Padmaraju identifies three ways people confuse attachment with love: craving a partner's attention rather than knowing them, loving the feeling they create instead of who they are, and staying in relationships that feel wrong out of fear of being alone.
3 signs you're confusing lust and attachment with love. First, you're addicted to their attention, not connected to their personality. When they give you attention, you feel amazing. When they pull away, you feel anxious. That can be attachment, not love. Second, you love how they make you feel, but you don't actually know who they are. You're attracted to the chemistry, the intimacy, the fantasy, but not necessarily the person. Third, You're terrified of losing them, even when the relationship doesn't feel right. Sometimes you're not holding on to the person, you're holding on to the feeling of having someone. Want to learn how to manifest your dream life? Comment heal. I will send you an exclusive ticket to my 2-day Heal and Manifest Bootcamp.
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