How I built my Foundation in Childhood - A life lesson by Avi Arya
26 Sept 2019 · 13 min
Avi Arya talks about growing up with speech difficulties and academic struggles, and how his mother's support gave him the confidence to overcome them. He traces that foundation from childhood through building a successful company.
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ना ई एम शुटिंग ब्रिक ओ माई गॉड इतना पसीना and i m। मेन रोल और मेरी आउटफिट ही नहीं है, सो आम लाइक मैं प्लीज मुझे यही पहनने 2 से नहीं तुम मुगल ड्रेस पहन के नहीं जा सकते। स्टेज के ऊपर तो जल्दी से उनको कुछ समझ नहीं आया। उन्होंने बोला अच्छा ठीक है, स्कूल की शॉर्ट्स पहनो मैंने स्कूल की शॉर्ट्स पहनी on bola shirt taro man short, how should i take of my short, i have such a big stump, i have always been concise of my body, you take of your shirt and all the boys in girls tanning back stasis short the rate and i was read in the face ididknowwertolook cons extreme, i was extremely concis my body and the chart paper ke strips lga दि उन्होंने ब्लैक कलर की चार्ट पेपर की स्ट्रेप 1 दर 1 जैसे वारियर होता है और पीछे से स्टेपल कर दिया और ऊपर 1 पुरानी सी 1 एलिग्जैंडर की हेलमेट टाइप मिल गया था वो पहना दिया एंड हाथ में स्वार्ड दे दिया और अब तो टाइम हो गया। and the post me on stage, you can imagine sara school, was ring the entire school, the first few minutes, then they go use to it and play happen in that and then i was like that was another experience in my life, then age bda everything became you now things for good in life and some time not, but ये मैथ्स की प्रॉब्लम मेरे साथ हमेशा चलती गई, बोलने की तुतलाने वाली problem ठीक हो गई stage fat problem and so i remember my mom siting again with my mom and she was like you know the speech coming up, so you have to speak s no no i cant speak now you have to and my mom is pained about rating and expressing his self, she is grated। what she does so she rode something that ramincltythe the whole country was in gulfedinthe ramianfiver, so the topic was ramianfiever and she rod ten page, raman ten pages and she was like। because i love her and she loves me and she at you have to read everyvordigonever tid dad like to my mother about anything सो ट्रू टू मदर कमिटमेंट इस में 11 वर्ड पढूंगा वेंडन स्टेज थोड़ा धीरे थोड़ा तेज थोड़ा लिस्प करता हुआ थोड़ा तो लाया क्या किया मुझे पता नहीं हैड some pel करते करते मैंने व स्पीच खत्म की, then कॉलेज हुआ, स्कूल हुआ, किसी तरीके से बोर्ड एवरीथिंग केस मैच में, फिर भी ठीक नंबर नहीं आया बट बोर्ड vento college wo college with okay, i had a get the best time in college, but then reflecting back to i l i don forty one and i m running a company that i love i love everybody in this company, its very difficult for people to say a, how do you love or employes me to samay he employ कभी ूज ही नहीं करता, some epl से फैमिली बोलना चाहिए। मैं सच में family बोलता हूं, because इनके साथ मैं ज्यादा stmspendkrाहon family in my kids, i actually look fawer to meeting my peoples in my office, i look falwerdtometing ages, i lo fawer, i look folwertometing mokashi, lok favor, i love these people s are characters in my l, ये मेरी लाइफ है और इन लोगो के बिना the drama that i m t playing in life and these guys are my co caracter? how can i not love them mary apni company the so the jo ele ounderwhtveri⁇m of the company i love the company its giving me a great name number one in the country and i m now invited to speak at event last month i was rank top twenty five insluenceinthe world one news paper publication top fifteen or twenty thirty some some some digital icons of asia to things are coming to me and i m thinking back and setting to me a sub me bat me ha thats making this video what happen rani kya h what happen to my speech, what happened to my match score, what happen to i dont know जिन चीजो को itna to bat me i used to think i m feeling in match as gold get thirty three to save my life and st company work all over the world costuthatwehanding itna cam acounts be matt co that is happening so ma basically is video ke through a what i want to say everything works out in life you need somebody to give you that direction and dont very it will happen dont very you would find look at your relians i not think fake very good, verygood beta krte ho, but at the same time you so home, what my mother at my mother also nge me she cat telling me you can do it and then she rode speech for me she made me practice it twenty thousand time home for me to on stage and i did it so i got or some loking happen there and kar sकाहoyaritolmyseफ घर बैठे कर सकता कर सकता हूँ i would actually post to do it i went for my spec therapy tried to get better at mata day so i not seeing that dont work in your weaknesses, but dont let your veknesisdefind you to a o o i think i speak prity okay at least confidence i can speak much i now that but it is confidence बिकulनहींथा जो मुझे मैच की जरुरत थी वो मेरे को आ गई और जो नहीं है वो रोज सीखता हूँ और जो नहीं है उसके लिए मेरे पास टीम है that i can hire a good team undrstodivgotthe brains hire a god, but the injection of love that i was given by my mother made me who i m da सो अगर आप कॉलेज में हो या स्कूल में हो या आप 50 साल के साथ के डजनमैटरकिसीभी स्टेज पे life whatever stage, whatever you whatever you going to इन लाइफ for whatever reason if you thinking that i dont have this in the for, i can become this thing dont give it so much do not give it so much। because दुनिया itna important date jitne there are so many speakers today who have a list, there are so many speakers today who can dont have mutated in all of that and they become speakers। because have a great story to say i mean everything works out a just keep अपने आप को तो, कम से कम वी शुड नोट पुल, आर सेल्फ बैक, हम अपने खुद के दुश्मन बन जाते वी शुड नोट पुल आर सेल्फ बैक, अपने आप को तो प्यार 2 अपने घर वालों को तो प्यार relate are sels with or kids? and the or we feel you not doing you wont do what i could not do i कंप डोंट डू that dont do that givi सम गाइडेंस अंडरटandiswekपॉंट but that power of love and appreciation and ingurrigmenttat you give to rod bloks rip match rod blok speed brake gady opr cd e that of love hes able to over come that so that s what this is a thougts were going on in my mind morning that what made me reach there i am today it was just my mother and cons in gigen and telling me that i m special she actually brain wash mein to me believing that i am really special और जब आपका main man today you re all is motvatolcoccocis if you start living it to start seeing it so i started believing it that i am स्पेशल मुझे पता था मेरी लाइफ में कुछ स्पेशल चीजें होने वाली है और हुई intrnet वेरी स्पेशल थिंग इन माई लाइफ r बहुत सारी special ces may h me stage bat krta on travel krta muje bulaya jata all these things that happen i never thought i dont think in my friend or family members also tort that i would be able to reach some humility i⁇msinghieable to have some might stones in life that i am proud of im proud that my family s proud of those so it all happened because of love, they now people make a heart of people, say love is the medicine and out of that you bada crecido par is evryhinovisvyhin love concursaleveythin, but what im seeing his content you actually look et a person and look at how full hers, then how mt hers love can change everything make even you know any body somebody like me to cold nothing good come out of my life, i think i making impact in my life and that of others so keep believing in yourself and ke believing in people around you thank you।
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