3 Things You Agreed To Before You Were Born - [Find Your True Self]

In this video, Axél Antojai Carrasquillo presents a spiritual framework that claims each person pre‑chooses three core aspects of their incarnation before birth: (1) the family they are born into, (2) the overarching life theme or storyline, and (3) the specific abilities or traits they will embody. He argues that families are selected as soul‑contracts to teach vital lessons, using personal anecdotes (e.g., his own chaotic family that taught him to turn chaos into harmony). He distinguishes destiny (a chosen end‑point) from fate (pre‑set events that act as tests), emphasizing free will to navigate multiple pathways toward the destined outcome. Carrasquillo encourages viewers to identify their innate divine abilities—whether healing, empathy, scientific insight, or creativity—as clues to their higher purpose. He explains that soul contracts extend beyond interpersonal agreements to include contracts with oneself made in higher dimensions, and that humans forget many of their multidimensional capabilities upon incarnation, requiring re‑awakening through practices like journaling, meditation, and aligning with the Law of Attraction. The video concludes with a call to action to join his Ascension Academy for coaching and further ascension training.
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Here are three things you agreed to before you were born. Welcome to the channel. My name is Excel, and on this channel we teach you everything about ascension, Reiki, and the Law of Attraction. Now, incarnation is a topic that a lot of people debate about. Like, some people are like, no, we never get reincarnated. Many philosophies around the world talk about being reincarnated in different formats that come through different. Now, regardless of whether or not you believe in this or you don't, I entertain you to kind of just take the following advice that I give you. If you want to shift yourself out of a 3D level consciousness, walking into 4D and walking into 5D. Number one, you chose your family. So regardless of how your family dynamic is, whether you were adopted or you had family that neglected you, or you had a really great family structure, you chose these people to be born into. And the reason why is because these people have vital lessons that are tied to your primordial nature. Every person is born with a specific cosmic nature that comes from another dimension or another realm or another infinity, right? So one of the things that we do is we choose people that are going to remind us who, who we are at. A great example is my family. Like, one of my vibrations is learning how to turn chaos into harmony. I was born into a family that had lots of chaos. And through those experiences, I learned how to turn all of that, transmute it into what I have now is harmony. And I, I'm able to help other people attain this level of harmony. I've been able to, to reach myself because I've experienced such a deep level of chaos. It's oftentimes that we get born into our reality and we're like, oh, well, you know, these things happened to me and why would this happen to me? Like, wow, I have a really shitty deal when it comes to, you know, how life played the game with me, right? But really, when you sit down and you stop victimizing yourself, which is a 3D consciousness, this third dimensional, right? Because chaos and victimization are happening to a person who has a third dimensional consciousness. When you stop actually blaming other people or feeling like things just randomly happen to you, and you're like, okay, why would I have chosen this particular family dynamic? Why would I have chosen to experience this? And what is the bigger lesson here? When you start integrating that, you really start freeing yourself and you start transcending astrally into higher and higher dimensions, which clears your aura and ends up basically bringing you to the next stage of your life, which gets you closer to your sole purpose. Number two, the second thing that you really did choose is the general theme of your life. Okay, now this one's another hard pill to swallow for a lot of people because sometimes we don't really want to think about, oh well, all the hardships that I've had other than my family, has to do with something that I've designed for myself. One of the things that a lot of people who are enlightened and reach like a higher state of existence will become ascended. They realize that not only did they pick all the people and interactions that they came through, but all those experiences were to lead them deeper into their destiny. So a lot of times people are like, well, I would have. If I could have chosen to be born in a specific storyline, I would have chosen it to be easier. That's not always true, because if you would have been born under different conditions, you probably wouldn't have the same level of determination. Right. If I would have been born into a family that gave me absolutely everything, what would be my determination to heal myself? What would be my determination to then develop quantum reiki and onto high alchemy to then later teach it to the rest of the world and help thousands of people around the globe? Right. Like it would. It wouldn't have made sense for me to be born into a family or a storyline that didn't have any form of resistance, because then I wouldn't able to learn how energy works and the true dynamics of this reality. The same thing happens for each person. Sure, you might have had a very negative experience once or twice many times across your lifetime, or maybe you're some of those lucky people that don't have that particular resistance. And you're like, why am I so lucky? You chose this particular vibration for yourself because that was what was going to give you the highest understanding of, on the greater scope of reality. We live in a reality full of energy, full of light, full of sound and frequencies. So we incarnate not only with family. That teaches us, you know, who we are at a more divine cosmic nature, but we also choose a storyline that we can navigate through to teach us the lessons of being powerful creators. Right. And one of the things that I really like to design here or like describe here in general, is that destiny and fate are two separate things. Okay, so destiny is basically saying that there's a specific way you want your story to end, and fate is saying that everything, everything, everything was laid out in front of you and you have no choice but to move forward in those particular subsets. There are certain events that are fated that they're locked into place to get you to your destiny. But fate, as one singular linear path, is not something that actually fully exists in the terms of our reality. Now, destiny can play out in a bunch of different ways. If your endpoint destiny is becoming one of the greatest healers on the planet, there's a lot of different ways, a lot of different avenues that you can take that you architected to get you to that end point. Right? Now, depending on how you go across this great ocean of possibilities, to get to your destiny is what's going to even teach you more about yourself, right? I've noticed that I've had opportunities in my life to listen to my intuition and not get involved with a narcissist. And when I have chosen to listen to that greater voice, I skyrocket myself closer and closer and closer to my destiny. I've also noticed that whenever I've been presented with some sort of resistance, rather I don't feel capable enough, or I am dealing with something else in my reality that is almost trying to stop me from getting to the next level. When I decide to push past it, I skyrocket myself deeper into my destiny, and things just start happening. I don't ever sit down and say, okay, well, I'm fated to just have a monotonous life. I'm not fated to, you know, have a ton of resistance. This is happening for me, not to me. Why would I have created this for myself? And what am I trying to actually communicate with myself? Because with the greater design of your reality, you're basically communicating with yourself via your synchronicities. So why is this synchronicity happening right now? And when I've decided to not listen to my intuition and get involved with the narcissist, I see a lot of things start dismantling. I feel out of sorts with myself, and I start kind of just really realizing, whoa, I should have gone with my intuition originally because I know what's going on at a greater scope that this is happening to teach you how to become a deeper creator, a more intimate architect with all the things that are happening in reality, because we still have free will in this reality to get you to the next level, right? So you have to allow yourself to recognize that destiny is your end point. You decided that your destiny is going to be one of the greatest healers. There's a couple events that happen that are faded because they're almost like tests for you to transcend or fall into a retrap. So that you can relearn specific lessons and then you have all this free will to decide how you're going to get to your destiny. And this is one of the things that you've personally created for yourself, similar to like a Sims video game, right? Like you can kind of architect how everything's going to play out from a higher perspective on the video game. If you've never played Sims, it's just, you should definitely Google it really fast. But this is pretty much the main dynamic that we experience here in this holographic reality that is essentially what people consider the matrix number three, which is the lessons and the powers that you're going to be gaining via this lifetime. Now, each person has a specific ability and trait that is custom to them. I'm a great healer, I'm a great empath psychic. You might be really great at creating things in your mind, understanding mathematics. All of these particular abilities that you have, even if they don't seem super psychic, are abilities that have been given to you to naturally acquire, that you gave yourself to naturally acquire, so you can skyrocket your potential in this lifetime as a divine creator with the powers of fate and destiny. Okay, so one of the things that I really recommend that you end up doing is allowing yourself to look at your current abilities. And what do your current abilities, the things that come supernatural to you, tell you about your greater cosmic character? For instance, if you're a mathematician or you understand chemistry really well, sciences really well, where could that be playing into in terms of the greater scope of who you are as a cosmic being? I'm really great at science. I know I'm an alchemist, so I can see formulas when it comes to things that the normal person can't perceive. Right? Those are my divine abilities. Your divine abilities will give you a link into other gateways in time and space, right? So if you're a really great chef, you have another lifetime that allows you to create things that are in the same field of energy, the same field of existence. You, you chose to have divine abilities come to you quickly and effortlessly because of the fact that you want to skyrocket and remember yourself more intimately. It's not just about, you know, the things that you've struggled to attain. Because a lot of times people struggle to become a doctor, right? They become a doctor at the end of the day, but they had to go through a lot of self discipline. That is a power, that's an ability a lot of people don't have self discipline or that level of willpower and Self determination to achieve such a goal, like being a doctor, for instance, that is something that's a clue to your divine nature. That type of resistance happened to show you a specific skill set or lesson or vibration that you've already mastered in another dimension or in another lifetime. One of the things that's really important about understanding this last one is that when you start honing in on what those particular traits that you carry are, maybe you're super empathetic, maybe you're super loving person, maybe you have this natural energy where kids and animals just feel drawn to you and they feel safe to you. This is all a clue as to what you can do with these powers to, to open up your sole purpose even deeper. Sometimes we go seeking our sole purpose outside of ourselves and we look for the meaning of life outside of ourselves instead of taking a second and taking a mental registry or internal registry of the things that we are already really, really good at, right? And then when you understand what you're really good at, it kind of just opens up the doorways for you to then see new pathways for you to create a more divine resonance with your destiny, right? And then it gives you the ability to then look back and be like, oh, this is why I dated this one person. This is why I decided to work in this one field with these types of people. This is why my family had a specific dynamic that they've always had. It's because you yourself are always trying to remind yourself of a greater lesson. Now, one of the things that you need to understand is that not every person comes to this dimension architecting for themselves having a divine mission to save the world. Okay? So some people really just come to this dimension to really enjoy and have pleasure here. Because this is the only dimension. The third dimension is the only dimension where you can have sex the way we have sex. The way you can eat food, the way that we eat food, the way that we can interact with other beings the way we do. There's a level of separation that allows you to just strictly focus on yourself and then finding the unity between all of your characteristics with the rest of reality. When you understand your personal characteristics, then you understand the soul contracts that you've created. Now these so contracts are not just again, with the people or the pathways or the actual lessons and skill sets. This is a contract with yourself, right? You create a all these subcontracts at a higher dimensional frequency before you get born into your body and you forget about them. Because this game would not be fun if you could remember them. I remember my life before coming to the third dimension. I used to live in the 13th and 14th dimension primarily. And there everything is like that. I just had to think about something and it was instantly there. If I wanted to read some sort of information booth, if I felt like, you know, tasting something, I could have it, but the texture of the food wasn't there. The taste or the energy vibration of the food was there, but the actual texture of a brownie or donut or how it felt going down my throat into my stomach and being processed from my body wasn't there. You come to this dimension and you forget some of these greater abilities that you've carried to reteach yourself that. And as I've gone through my own personal journey in this incarnation again, I've remembered all these greater skill sets that I've acquired and I used to live in as my new normal perpetually. And it's taught me, wow, like, if I could do it there, I can do it again here. It's going to be a different dynamic, right? It's going to be a different structure because I'm in a different dimension, but I'm still the same being having just a different experience, right? So this is the most important thing, especially if you're starting over with your awakening. Like, and I say starting over with your awakening because we are awakened into this life and then we become aware that we've been sleeping, so we become reawakened, right? Because you've also had awakenings in other lifetimes as well. So it's not that you're awakening for the first time, you're reawakening from many other times that you've awakened already, reminding yourself of what you're capable of and what's next. So allow yourself to be patient, allow yourself to journal these answers and meditate on these things, and you'll definitely start seeing everything coming together, especially through the Law of Attraction. Because the more aware you are of yourself, the more aware you're going to become of the Law of Attraction. The Law of Attraction is going to become more aware of you and it's going to become more aware of everything that you choose to actually be. If you found this video very entertaining and useful for you, don't forget to smash that like button. Share it with anybody that you think might need this message. And if you're looking for one on one coaching, or you're looking to become an ascension healer, a coach that teaches people the art of becoming ascended masters, ascended beings, check out the link in the description below. Join our Ascension Academy, and I'll check you out in our next episode.
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