In this monologue, Axél Antojai Carrasquillo explains that a partner’s infidelity is not a reflection of the victim’s worth but stems from unresolved issues within the cheater, which he maps onto specific chakras. He identifies the throat chakra (lack of honesty and self‑expression) and the solar plexus chakra (low self‑worth, loneliness, and will‑power deficits) as the primary energetic sources of cheating, with the sacral chakra occasionally driving pleasure‑seeking behavior. Carrasquillo argues that these issues manifest as “leaky” energetic boundaries that allow betrayal to enter one’s reality. He prescribes a Reiki‑based protocol: create a clear energetic boundary around oneself, vocalize needs to strengthen the throat chakra, affirm self‑worth to heal the solar plexus, and engage the sacral chakra to regulate desire and self‑control. By consistently reinforcing these boundaries and rewiring one’s energy system, the individual can reclaim personal power, prevent future cheating, and become a conscious creator of their reality. The video concludes with a call to like, follow, and seek further guidance.
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Does someone just cheat on you? This is how you're going to clear your energy with Reiki. When somebody cheats on you, it's because they don't respect your boundaries. So imagine that you have a boundary around your circle and it has like these little holes inside of it. And this could have been because you don't have enough clarity, trauma, environment, or a bunch of other things, but fundamentally, you don't have a clear enough boundary. And no matter what the reason is, you need to find clarity and what you're going to do next, which is creating the boundary. When you create the boundary and you say, I'm not going to accept this anymore, or I'm giving you a specific, specific set of conditions that are going to work with me, you start reclaiming clarity, which helps you overcome the trauma of them actually cheating on you. It may not always change your environment, but it will change the energy and tone of your space. And what you really need to understand and grasp from this is that the person who cheated on you is not cheating on you because of you. They chose to cheat on you because they have something unresolved within themselves. Because somebody who's authentic and truthful with themselves would not have to cheat on you. So it's a throat chakra issue that they got going on, or solar plexus chakra issue going on. A lot of people cheat because they've experienced it in their childhood rather through parents or other influential characters in their life. That would be all your solar plexus chakra. Some people cheat because they're not honest with themselves about what they really want out of their lives and what they want to be manifesting for themselves. So that would be a throat chakra issue. Even if you end up saying, oh, I was lonely, so I ended up cheating because of the loneliness, that's still a solar plexus chakra issue. Because your solar plexus chakra is tied to loneliness, lack of self worth, your creativity, your own inner perception of yourself. And the crazy thing is, if, if you don't create a boundary, a circle around yourself, then you're just letting the opportunity for more cheating to step into your reality. Because when someone is cheating on you is because you have some vibration in you that's saying it's okay to do this. Some people are going to tell you that you have leaky energy or you have holes in your aura, but in reality, it's just a mental construct on what you will accept for yourself. That's why if you end up making a boundary that automatically starts protecting your solar plexus chakra, vocalizing your needs and your boundaries, exercises the throat chakra. And by staying firm and accepting what you need in your life, you're exercising your sacral chakra. Now, people cheat for a lot of different reasons. Not just these two chakras, but these are the two top chakras that people actually cheat from. Some people end up cheating directly from their sacral chakra because all they're looking for is pleasure. And even then, if someone cheats on you because they're seeking pleasure, what does that say about their self control? Self control and willpower come back to the throat chakra and the solar plexus chakra. Even if you ended up cheating on someone because you hate them, that's a solar plexus chakra issue. And I'm not saying that you got cheated on because it's your fault. But if you can learn from this moment or any moment where you get cheated on and you rewire your energy system, you'll stop the next person from doing it to you. That's part of being a creator of your own reality. Like and follow for more onto high.
