In this monologue Axél Antojai Carrasquillo addresses the loneliness many feel while staying at home during quarantine and the habitual reliance on dating apps such as Bumble, Tinder, and Grindr. He frames the apps as mirrors that reflect the user’s own boredom and desire to escape, pointing out that the common denominator in failed matches is always the user plus the app. Carrasquillo urges listeners to stop using the apps as a crutch and instead turn the attention inward: discover personal motivations, raise one’s vibration, and align with 5‑dimensional (5D) energy. By elevating consciousness, practicing self‑love, and focusing on authentic vibration, he claims people will naturally attract others who share the same frequency—often outside the apps. He also discusses how heavy screen dependence erodes real‑time communication skills and how many users present false personas through photos, masking their true aura. He encourages intuitive aura perception to see through these facades, suggesting that authentic self‑expression will draw genuine connections, whether on or off the apps. The overall message is that self‑work and vibration elevation, not digital swiping, are the pathways to meaningful relationships and personal ascension.
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A lot of you are staying home right now, and you guys are trying to figure out ways for you to be able to kind of, like, expand your horizons and not feel so lonely. Well, here's the main thing about dating sites, okay? If you're one of those people that's been sitting on Bumble, on Tinder, on Grindr, on whatever you want to call it, right? And you're trying to connect with other people, hmm. Let's look at reality being a mirror really fast. All right? If reality is a mirror, you're home, you're bored, you're lonely, and you're trying to escape yourself. What do you think the other person on the other side of the screen is trying to do as well? They're bored, they're lonely, they're trying to escape themselves. So I usually hear a lot of times people talking to me about, like, oh, my God, I keep meeting all these guys from Grindr, or I keep meeting all these people from Tinder and just. It doesn't work out. Hello. Look at the common denominator. The common denominator is always you and the app, all right? So if it's you and the app, why do you keep doing the same thing over and over and over again, expecting different results? It just does not make sense, right? But for some people, it's just like, oh, you know, that last time, it just didn't work out. I've done it 20,000 times, but still, I keep running into shit bags, so. So if that's the case right now, especially more than ever, it's a moment for you to really focus on yourself and get a clue. It's a moment for you to put all that extra attention that you could be using to divert into somebody else, to actually find out what it is that you want, why it is that you're going for it, what's been motivating you to get there, and why you haven't taken the time earlier to apply yourself, guarantee that if you're one of those people that's looking for a lover, right, or you're looking for a significant other at any moment in your life, if you actually take this time when we're all in, like, a quarantine, and even if you're watching this after this quarantine, quarantine thing is done and over with, you need to understand this. When you feel fulfilled with yourself, when you have your own personal answers, when you are in this moment where you're like, oh, I don't need to go on Tinder because I'm not Lonely. I would like the accompaniment of someone else in my reality, but I'm not lonely. You're gonna automatically see that this addiction for some of you to get on these apps and continuously do like this work on these apps is just gonna disappear because a lot of people have lost their connection to be able to talk to people in real time. All right? Back in the day, we had to go to bars. We had to. And we still do, right? We had to go to bars. We had to do this, right? But. But this new age has brought the computer and people to use so easily right through the Internet. And one of the things is, like, a lot of people have lost their communication skills. They cannot communicate clearly because of the fact that they are so heavily dependent of a computer screen. That tells you the kind of vibration that some people are on. Especially if you're in the queer community, maybe the straight community deals with this too. And if you have multiple apps, you will continuously rotate those apps and you'll run into somebody that's literally on every app, if not everyone that's on all of those apps. So then it's telling you, you went on this one app, you saw the same people. You went on the other app, you saw the same people. You have the same literal pool of people who are vibrating at the same rate that you're vibrating at. Why are you sitting on the app? It's a moment for you to really sit down and ask yourself, what why I'm sitting on this app? Am I sitting here because I just want to have a conversation with somebody, or am I looking for something hopeful? Am I lonely? Or is it because there's nothing better to do? Either way, there's no correct answer than you saying, hey, I'm not going to actually sit on this app. I'm going to love myself, choose to love myself, choose to work on myself, choose to elevate my consciousness, accelerate my vibration, and bam. You will literally find people that were not on the app, or if they are on the app, there are people who are vibrating at the same frequency that you are. There are people who are going to be saying, hey, I like you because you seem to have a similar vibration to me. I've done this a bunch of times. When I used to be on these apps, every time I was feeling lonely, I'd manifest somebody on the. On the other side of the app that felt the same exact way. If I was looking for sex, I would find somebody who was just looking for that. If I was looking for sex and maybe a relationship, I would Always find that. But, but when I would sit down and be like, you know, I don't really need anybody. Let me just quick, real fast, look at who's on here. Bam. I would turn it on and then I would align myself with people who had that same vibration who were like, I'm just like, bored. I don't need anything. But let's see who's on here. If anybody's new, somebody talk to, right? And what's really important about all of this right now is the fact that, like, when you actually sit down and you do this, you're going to be so shocked because what you don't actually realize is that you, you can see aura, you can see energy. A lot of times when you're sitting on these apps and you're flipping left and right, what are you judging a person off of their aura, their face, their presentation of what they look like through photos, right? And a lot of people are really good at lying to you and pretending that they look or they are this one person when they're really not that person. But when you're actually saying, hey, I'm looking for a specific vibration, you can then see through, like, hey, this person's genuine, this person's not. Intuitively, you will pick up on the information that allows you to see the truth, right? So, like, if you're also one of those people that are on these apps and you're like, you know, taking all these photos and, and these photos are of you traveling the world and you only travel like once every three years, but you want everybody to look at you and be like, oh, man, this, this guy's cultured. You're a liar, you're not living your authentic truth. And like, there's all these self sabotaging, like 3D material programs that are out there that are just based literally to distract you from the higher consciousness of the collective and yourself and your ascension, because you're sitting there trying to portray an image of what you want people to think about you instead of you actually just being like, this is who I am. Take it or leave it, right? When you live that authentic vibration, you will find other people who live that authentic vibration. And surprise, you most likely will not find these people on the apps that you thought you were going to meet them on. I've met a bunch of people off of just Instagram or Facebook or through a friend because I've decided to focus on my vibration first. So this is one of those things. Like right now, if you're lonely at home, do not jump on these apps because you're escaping the ultimate truth, which is the 5D energy that's going on right now that you should be exploiting, that you should be using to grow in general. That's what's really going to take you to the next level. That's what's really going to give you what you want, because you're choosing to put yourself first, right? And if you choose to put yourself first, then you will find someone who's going to choose to put you first before anything else, because they put themselves first. And then you're living at the same vibrational frequency, elevating yourselves, okay?
