STOP CHASING LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS! DO THIS INSTEAD (have them chase you)

In this motivational‑spiritual talk, Axél Antojai Carrasquillo urges viewers to spend a full 24 hours being unapologetically themselves as a practical experiment for spiritual awakening. He argues that most people present a compromised version of themselves to meet external expectations (family, work, social norms) and that this masks true reality. By deliberately shedding those masks, individuals can observe authentic reactions from others, discern who truly accepts them, and clarify their own dharma. The talk links authenticity to ego deconstruction, the throat chakra (truth‑speaking), and the law of attraction, emphasizing that only desires rooted in genuine motives can manifest efficiently. He also explains how authentic presence attracts high‑vibrational people and provides concrete cues—such as others’ facial reactions or willingness to give space—to gauge relational alignment. Throughout, the speaker stresses that the first step, though uncomfortable, is the most critical catalyst for personal growth, freedom from fear, and deeper consciousness.
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Do you want to have a really crazy spiritual experience today? What I want you to do is just be yourself unapologetically. Do it for the next 24 hours, and you're going to see the true context of your reality. A spiritual awakening is always about being able to see things for what they actually are. Rather, you have to deconstruct how you look at the universe or the perceptions of other people. The best way to really start that process and to get the most out of it is by taking action and taking charge. When you interact with most other people or you're in certain situations, there's a different version of you that's on, and that version of you is the one that's compensating for whatever might be going on. You might not feel comfortable expressing your truth under specific situations. Or you may not have the confidence to do something because it's frowned upon. So when you actually take the second to be unapologetically you, you get to see what other people react to you being who you are. You get to see if they could actually identify and be something of value in your reality. Because some people like a version of you. Not everyone likes who you are as a person authentically. And sometimes we're afraid of losing friendships or we're afraid of losing opportunities because we are who we are. And that's not true spiritual awakening. That's not really spiritual enlightenment. Because you need to embody your positives and your negatives. And what one person may see as a negative, another person may see as a positive. When you're unapologetically yourself, you can understand that. And no one's perfect. Everyone's somehow trying to figure it out. And it's the people who tend to really just be honest with themselves and embody a specific level of authenticity that seem to be having all the magic happen to them because they're no longer trying to pretend to be someone else. Part of discovering the ego is not giving in to what other people create for you as an ego. So your mom might have certain expectations for you. Your job might have certain expectations out of your character. But sometimes you need to test the waters and just be yourself and see what happens. Because when you do that, you're able to then come really start seeing what kind of life you want to live and what your true self and what your limits actually are. Being unapologetically yourself is never going to actually be easy. But taking the first step is always going to be the most critical for you. Because taking the first step in anything is a Sign that you at least tried to explore it. You may not like wood building, right? But at least you took the first step to try it once, maybe. And that's more than enough to give you an understanding as to what's happening. Your spiritual awakening and your spiritual development always comes down to you being authentic with yourself and doing things because you truly feel a certain kind of way that's following your sole purpose, that's following your dharma. And you can't depend on other people to bring that out for you. You need to be able to say, I'm okay. I give myself permission. I accept myself for who I am. And I'm gonna spend 24 hours just being me. Whoever comes into my radius is gonna experience me. And you're gonna feel better when you do that because you're gonna say, wow, how liberating it is to actually show who I am as a person, even if the other person doesn't take it the right way. Or they might be thinking you're silly. It gives you a lot of information to work with. Because now you know this particular individual doesn't actually like you for who you are. They like a version of you. And that's okay. But it gives you the understanding as to how you're going to build your future. Because you want to have people around you that can accept you for who you are. And every once in a while, I'm hanging out with one of my friends and I get weird. I'll just get weird randomly, like I would if I'm home alone by myself. And I just watch how they react. If they don't flinch, if they don't make a face, if they don't see say anything, they just embrace the energy. That's a really great sign. That means that person authentically cares about me. They like me. They may not understand why I'm doing what I'm doing, right? But they're at least willing to give space for it, right? They're willing to allow it to be because it's part of my soul expression. And that's the kind of energy that you really want to have around you. Because the more you focus on bringing that level of authenticity, the more you're going to connect with other people that are living that same vibration. You can't connect, come into contact with high vibrational people who are actually living like a high vibrational state if you're not living from a place of authenticity. So today, just spend literally 24 hours, be who you are. Say what's on your mind. You know, have tact while you do it. But be honest. A lot of us aren't honest with ourselves and we're not honest with other people because we're filling a bill, we're filling a perception that's going to make that person feel comfortable with us. We're doing things out of safety, right? And when we're operating and restricting ourselves in the sake of safety, what we're living from is a place of fear. And that place of fear is not going to let you blossom in your own spiritual development in creating the things that you really want to create. Because if you don't know who you are, how are you going to manifest things that are in alignment with the real you? The easiest things to manifest are the things that you are personally embodying, things that you are personally being authentic with. Maybe you want a lot of wealth, but the reason why you want wealth is for, well, health. Or maybe you want the wealth so you can help other people. But if you're just saying, I just want a lot of money so I can do things, that's not really the authentic reason why you might want a lot of money. And that's why when a lot of people are manifesting something, they say, I just want this for whatever reason, I just want it. What's the authentic reason for wanting something? And we start really understanding how to bend the law of attraction. We start learning how to really be efficient healers. When we're authentic with our ourselves, that's when you can really become telepathic. A lot of times people want to become really powerful in bending reality. But the first, most critical step is actually recognizing where you're not being authentic with yourself. And you have to make a conscious effort to force yourself to be authentic. And that's where I. A lot of people will freeze because they're not focusing on the most important lesson, which is authenticity. That's your throat chakra. When you're authentic, that's your throat chakra. You speak truth, you can vocalize your ideas, you can gather wisdom, you can connect beyond the physical world. You have to be who you are. And sometimes when you are who you are, and you're so starting to understand that you're transcending your ego, there's going to be people who come through and they're going to say, oh, you're full of ego. You're full of ego. Why? Because you know what you want, you know how to get what you want, you know how to manifest, you know who you are. There's a difference between having a place of ego, where you operate from ego. And there's another level of understanding that says you are just being who you are and you're triggering something, someone else because they're not being who they are. And of course the natural response is going to say you have ego. So just take note. Carry it around. Make mental registry. Try it. This is one of the most powerful ways that you can unlock your consciousness and start really understanding the context of reality. Reality. Sending out the love.
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