Blake R. Templeton says attraction can't be forced or scheduled, but men can shape the conditions for it. By offering intentional affirmation, pursuit, and emotional buildup, they recreate the early-relationship dynamics that let attraction grow naturally.
I see someone put like intimacy on their calendar. What are you doing? You can't schedule passion, but as a man, you can create the environment for it. Attraction is responsive, not forced, not scheduled, but you can actually prepare your heart instead of waiting for the mood. Lead your wife intentionally with affirmation and pursuit and emotionally build up to that moment, just like you did in the very, very, very beginning.
