Blake R. Templeton says men treat their wife's anger as the problem when it's actually a symptom. Wives communicate concerns through an emotional code men aren't taught to decode, creating cycles of offense and withdrawal that make things worse.
Most men think their wife's anger is the problem. Usually it's a symptom. She's trying to communicate something, but she's speaking emotional code. And if we were never taught how to interpret it, then we'd offend, we withdraw, we fix, we argue, and accidentally we make things worse. What's crazy is most men have no idea the enemy has been translating their words incorrectly for years. DM the word quiz and I'll send over my custom diagnostic that shows you exactly how the enemy's attacking your marriage and what you can do about it.
