Blake R. Templeton says men often miss their wives' signals of interest and then call them distant. He argues the fix is learning to recognize and interpret her specific physical cues. Once you speak her language, you'll see she's been pursuing you all along.
Yes, so true. So if she initiates intimacy and he misses it, don't call her distant later. Like, some wives are not refusing intimacy. There's a signal, all right? Their signal is just not registering because you're in the wrong role to receive it. So instead of assuming she never initiates, ask her what her signal is. Define a physical signal and then learn that language, and she won't seem distant. She'll seem like the one pursuing.
