Blake R TempletonFounder, Son of Wisdom · Son of Wisdom · Spiritual architect for men

She's Tired of Being the Adult for Two

17 Jun 2026 · 1 min

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In this brief monologue, Blake Robert Templeton argues that many men have become people‑pleasers who cede control of household and relationship decisions to their wives, effectively turning their partners into the “project manager” of their lives. He claims this dynamic emasculates men and forces women into a maternal, managerial role, which suppresses their natural playfulness, flirtatiousness, and femininity. Templeton advises men to reclaim proactive, decisive leadership—anticipating needs, taking the “next right thing” without waiting for direction, and standing firm in confidence—so that their partners can relax into a softer, more feminine demeanor.

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If you want your wife to be more flirtatious and feminine, then you gotta stop making her feel like she's the project manager of your life. I see this all the time. Guys get emasculated, get neutered, doesn't matter who did it, but now they're the people pleaser trying to not have conflict. And the woman cannot stay soft and playful and flirtatious while she feels like she has to be the mother of the man, manage the home, drag leadership out of them. So instead of waiting for her to tell you what to do, own the next right thing before she asks. Like, be on alert. Stand firm in the faith. Act like a man. Mm-hmm.