Blake R TempletonFounder, Son of Wisdom · Son of Wisdom · Spiritual architect for men

Stop Defending Yourself And Pursue Her Heart

19 Aug 2026 · 0 min

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Blake R. Templeton argues that pressuring a partner to be more feminine backfires. Stop defending yourself in conflicts and stop bringing self-condemnation into the home. Instead, shift the atmosphere and actively pursue her heart to create the conditions where her femininity naturally emerges.

I know it's— you don't awaken her femininity with more pressure. So if there's pressure on you, we call that pressure from the slave lord, that voice of condemnation, feeling of failure, but you don't bring that home. We crucify that pressure and you do not bring that into the house. You want to awaken her femininity? So instead of defending yourself in conflict, shift the atmosphere in the house and pursue her heart.