Blake Robert Templeton explains how pushing for quick fixes in conflicts triggers emotional shutdown in your partner, like a computer crashing. Instead, slow down, create space, and let them recover. He cites Psalm 23:1-2 on gentle guidance.
If everything is urgent, nothing feels safe to her because your pressure creates emotional shutdown inside her. She has what's called a blue screen. It's like a computer screen, and when she goes blue, like, bro, you just killed the system. So instead of forcing resolution on your timeline, slow the moment down and create space. Psalm 23:1-2 says, the Lord is my shepherd, he leads me beside quiet Daughters, if that's how God leads you, that's how you should lead her.
