Blake R. Templeton argues that criticism kills playfulness and beauty in a relationship. His fix: name three things you admire about your partner every day. Shifting from fault-finding to appreciation changes how you both feel.
Now we forget this when you're burning the candle at both ends. A woman's playfulness dies when appreciation from you is silent. Like, your criticism amplifies flaws. So what you've got to realize is gratitude amplifies beauty. So instead of pointing out what's wrong, stop that. Complete what I call a daily appreciation exercise. Always, every day, name 3 things you admire about her. Change the way you think, you'll change the way you feel. And that's actually how you want to feel. Anyway.
