Blake Robert Templeton says married men often fear their wives don't want them anymore, so they respond by doing more and trying harder, which backfires. The real problem: believing attraction has to be earned instead of cultivated. Men mask this fear as frustration or disconnection.
After years of working with married men, I've noticed something. Most men don't tell me they're rejected. They tell me they're frustrated, they're annoyed, they're confused, they're disconnected. But underneath all of it's the same fear: my wife doesn't want me anymore. So they try harder, they do more, provide more, fix more, and somehow feel even further away. What's crazy is that most men don't realize the enemy's convinced them attraction is earned instead of cultivated. DM the word quiz and I'll send you over my custom diagnostic. It shows you exactly what's happening inside you and why you're feeling rejected.
