Blake Robert Templeton argues that strong leadership in relationships comes from emotional self-control, not reaction. Master your own feelings first, then validate your partner. He cites Proverbs 16:32: ruling your own spirit surpasses conquering a city.
Yeah, so most guys miss this. You can't lead her heart if you're reacting to her emotions. Like, leadership requires emotional stability. So instead of matching her emotional wave, hold your ground internally before speaking externally. She wants connection, she wants validation, and so give her that in return, and you'll receive so much more love. Proverbs 16:32 says, he who rules his own spirit is better than he who captures a city. Take control of your own self before you try to take control of her.
