Blake R TempletonFounder, Son of Wisdom · Son of Wisdom · Spiritual architect for men

The Woman You Miss Is Still There

5 Jun 2026 · 1 min

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In this short prophetic‑style exhortation, Blake Robert Templeton tells married men that the version of their wife they miss has not vanished; she has merely adapted to the environment the husband created. He urges them to stop blaming their spouse for distance and instead examine what stressors they have introduced into the marriage that have “killed the fire.” By removing those self‑inflicted triggers, restoring the “joy of the Lord” (citing Psalm 51:12), and bringing back the playful, adventurous spirit they once shared, the husband can rekindle romance. Templeton promises that the wife will return more radiant if the husband chooses to make these changes, emphasizing personal responsibility and the power of spiritual joy to revive marital intimacy.

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Man, I just want to prophetically speak. The version of your wife that you miss deeply, it's still there. She didn't disappear. She's adapted to the environment that you created. So instead of blaming her for distance or blaming that you have fallen out of love, remove the stress triggers. Remove what you brought into the marriage that's actually killed the fire. Remove that and then reset and go back to restoring the joy of the Lord, like Psalm 51:12. Restore the joy. It matter the chaos you have at work, bring that joy, that fire, that excitement, that playful adventure that you used to have, man, your girl will come back. All the flower petals of that bloom will come back, and she will become more radiant than ever before. It's your choice.