Blake R TempletonFounder, Son of Wisdom · Son of Wisdom · Spiritual architect for men

Three Words That Can Change Your Marriage

28 Aug 2026 · 1 min

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In this brief monologue, Blake R. Templeton argues that criticism erodes a partner’s playfulness, while gratitude nurtures beauty and connection. He proposes a concrete daily practice: each partner should name three things they admire about the other every day. By shifting focus from faults to positive qualities, the speaker claims individuals will change their thoughts, feelings, and ultimately the emotional tone of the marriage.

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Now we forget this when you're burning the candle at both ends. A woman's playfulness dies when appreciation from you is silent. Like, your criticism amplifies flaws. So what you've got to realize is gratitude amplifies beauty. So instead of pointing out what's wrong, stop that. Complete what I call a daily appreciation exercise. Always, every day, name 3 things you admire about her. Change the way you think, you'll change the way you feel. And that's actually how you want to feel. anyway.