Blake R TempletonFounder, Son of Wisdom · Son of Wisdom · Spiritual architect for men

You May Have Buried the Woman You Fell in Love With

15 Jul 2026 · 1 min

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In this prophetic‑style talk, Blake Robert Templeton tells husbands that the version of their wife they miss has not vanished; she has merely adapted to the stressful environment the husband created. He urges men to stop blaming their spouse and instead remove the stress triggers they introduced into the marriage. By restoring the "joy of the Lord" (citing Psalm 51:12) and bringing back the excitement, playfulness, and adventurous spirit they once shared—whether from work or personal life—the wife’s radiance will return, even more vibrant than before. Templeton frames this transformation as a personal choice and responsibility for the husband.

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Man, I just want to prophetically speak. The version of your wife that you miss deeply, it's still there. She didn't disappear. She's adapted to the environment that you created. So instead of blaming her for distance or blaming that you have fallen out of love, remove the stress triggers. Remove what you brought into the marriage that's actually killed the fire. Remove that and then reset and go back to restoring the joy of the Lord, like Psalm 51:12. Restore the joy. It matter the chaos you have at work, bring that joy, that fire, that excitement, that playful adventure that you used to have, man, your girl will come back. All the flower petals of that bloom will come back and she will become more radiant than ever before. It's your choice.