Julie Broad explains the fourth sign you're ready to write a book: emotional readiness to share personal material. Writing can help you process firing, rejection, death, or abuse, but if it's still raw or written from anger, keep it private until you can revise it for readers instead of yourself.
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Ingredient4 is a clear reason to write for that audience. I think writing can be very therapeutic and getting it out of your head onto the page can be a powerful way to process things that have happened. But if it's still really raw or emotional, whether it's a firing, a rejection, a death, abuse, abandonment or some other trauma, these things take time to process and to really learn from them, but before they can be shared with others in a way that really adds value and perspective. I've chatted with many authors who want to write a book out of revenge or spite because they're still so angry or hurt by what happened. They want to tell it to the world and stick it to the person that hurt them. And that's about you and your emotions. You can write a book, and maybe you should as a way to work through it, but you're maybe not ready to publish it until you can rewrite it in a way that will benefit your reader.