A musician explains why silence matters in speaking. Pauses aren't empty space; they're where meaning lands. The best speakers stay true to themselves and let natural rhythm emerge, not rushing to fill every gap.
I do have some experience with music. If you're a performer, we'll often use a metronome, which puts you on beat. What I think I didn't understand as a layperson is every beat is not a note. You don't play 92 notes on your instrument per minute. A beat is simply the spacing between notes, or you can play a note or play silence. The more silence you have between notes, the more emphasis it puts on the prior or then the proceeding or preceding the next note. In speaking, I found that is a significant element, the power of the pause in the middle. And I think that's actually where most speakers slip up because they They think that they're losing the audience if they're not just speaking and keep going, but you're giving the audience the pause so they can breathe in what they've just heard from you. I think the power of the pause is significant, but in my final analysis is the best speakers are the most natural to their true self. They're the most consistent with who they are when you meet them otherwise.
