Orgasms are learned skills, not something you either have or don't. There are about twenty distinct types, and accessing them requires understanding your body's operating system and working through trauma. You're not broken, just untrained.
A lot of sexperts will say, "Oh, orgasm isn't that big a thing. You know, it's the closeness. It's the intimate." And it's bullshit. Because orgasms are simply learned skills, you have them all within you. There's 20 kinds you can have. You simply need to know the directions to the human operating system to evoke them. And sometimes, like my animal trainer, she has to think about herself as an animal in training and give herself the ability to move through the trauma and into the pleasure. And that's why I use that story. I want people to know that they are fully orgasmic. There's nothing wrong with them. They're not broken and that you just need to learn how to do it.
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