Why Safety in a Relationship is Important for Women #johngray #newpodcast #relationshipadvice #love

Name: Why Safety in a Relationship is Important for Women #johngray #newpodcast #relationshipadvice #love
Uploaded: 2023-02-15T17:51:01+00:00
Duration: 46 s
Channel: Claudia von Boeselager
Description: In this monologue, the speaker argues that verbal expressions of love and commitment—such as telling a partner she is the most beautiful woman—fulfill a…

15 Feb 2023 · 1 min

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In this monologue, the speaker argues that verbal expressions of love and commitment—such as telling a partner she is the most beautiful woman—fulfill a deep need for safety in women. When a woman feels secure, her body produces higher levels of estrogen, the hormone the speaker claims is essential for orgasmic and multi‑orgasmic pleasure. Conversely, a lack of safety leads to reduced estrogen and diminished sexual responsiveness. The speaker also notes that a man's hormonal profile changes when his partner feels loved and safe, implying a reciprocal physiological benefit. The overall message is that emotional safety is not only psychologically important but also biologically crucial for sexual satisfaction in women.

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Like with my partner, I say, you're the most beautiful woman in the world for me. You're the only one I want to be with, and I'm so lucky to be with you. That touches a woman's heart so deeply because it reaches a very deep core of women which needs security to meet, feel safe. When a woman feels safe, she can open her heart. If she doesn't feel safe, like you're going to come and go and you're going to be gone, now she has to start all over. When she doesn't feel safe, she can't make as much estrogen. Estrogen is the magic hormone that allows her to be orgasmic. So you get to much higher levels of multi-orgasmic pleasure if a woman feels loved and safe. And ironically, for that, if a woman feels loved and safe, a man's hormones that get produced in his body are different than regular sex.