A speaker urges you to speak encouraging words to anyone, even those who've wronged you, because God may use that kindness to bring blessings back. Mature faith isn't about perfection but about being intentional with your words and trusting God to work through them.
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If God put it on your heart to go speak to that young man and, and give him an encouraging word, I don't care what he have done to you or what he did to your sister or your brother or whatever. You go speak an encouraging word to that young man, cuz that young man can be the one that come back and bless you because God has commissioned you to do it. Don't question why, just do it, bro. Don't ever question why you should sow seeds of love, man, and not seeds of discord, bro. Don't question that, just do it. Uh, remember, speaking like a man or a mature person of faith isn't about perfection. It's about— it's about being intentional with your words and trusting God to use them in his glory.