Learn How To Conquer Your Fears 😨 & Find True Happiness! 😊

They're anxious about our economy. They're anxious about their own life and where it's going to go. We can't be fearful and happy at the same time. Like, especially entrepreneurs, we, we think about, all right, I got to be confident. It's one of the good moods. So I talk about in the second half of the book is confidence. But confidence is the counter to this fear. Then there's desire. Desire is good, but if we get stuck in it— and this is what I was talking about earlier, like I was desiring more and more and more and more and more success. It's insatiable. So even though we're achieving a lot, when we're stuck in the emotion of desire, there's no end to it, and we, we can never actually be happy after desire. Desire is positive because we can start to make positive changes in our life, but there's 10 more positive emotions above desire that feel way better. So we, like, you, a lot of people will get to desire and then they'll say, oh, I figured it out, I've got, I could just have, I'll just go out and have what I want to have. And, uh, but ultimately, hopefully we wake up from that and recognize, man, even though I have what I wanted to have, I still don't have happiness. So it's not the money, it's not the success, it's not the possessions, it's not the cars. None of that stuff makes me happy. So what does? Well, beyond desire, we get into the last two negative moods, and then we start to get into positive moods. Uh, the, the second to last negative mood is anger. Anger can actually be a really good thing. It could be really good. We start to say, man, I don't like the way things are, and I want them to be better, and I'm going to do something about it. So anger can actually make, like, positive change for us. And then the final bad mood is arrogance, thinking that we're better than people. And we can never ever be happy thinking we're better than somebody else. So those are the 8 negative moods I talk about, uh, in my book. And then, and then how to get out of them, because ultimately, even if we're achieving success, if we're, if we're achieving success and we're not happy, we're still failing.

You know, you, you said something at the beginning of this, it made me think about a conversation I just had with my mother just today. I guess I was practicing on my good mood status. She said, you know, it was something pertaining to the family or whatever. So she told me, so she brought it up again and I said, I said, ma, um, I don't, I say not to, I say to be respectful. I said, I really don't want to talk about that no more because then I start feeling some type of way. And I told her, I said, I don't want to be feeling some type of way today. I got 4 interviews, you know what I'm saying? I gotta stay in a peaceful place, you know? I gotta stay in a happy mood. So I don't want the negative stuff to outweigh, you know what I'm saying, what I gotta do.