In this segment of the CJ Moneyway Show, Speaker A reflects on the erosion of tight‑knit, multigenerational communities that once provided men with clear guidance and accountability. He links his personal experience of his father’s abandonment to a broader pattern of fatherlessness that leaves many men without a model for forgiveness and purpose. Speaker A argues that men’s brains function differently from women’s, affecting how they process relationships, responsibility, and faith. He highlights a glaring gap: faithful men who strive to live according to their religious convictions receive little practical support because existing societal help structures are not designed for men’s needs. The monologue ends with an implicit call to rebuild community bonds and develop faith‑aligned support systems for men, urging listeners to recognize and address this systemic failure.
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You know, when my dad left, uh, and I think this is a major problem with our times, you look back 200 years ago, people almost never moved very far. And so you'd grow up in the small little town, village, community, whatever, where you knew everyone and everyone knew you. And so you had your 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s, and you got, you know, old Bill over there has been watching. He's known you since you were pooping your diapers. He walks up and he says, Michael, whack, you're doing it wrong, here's what you got to do. Well, we don't have that anymore. We don't have those community, those communities with those thick connections and tight relationships. And what we're watching is we're watching people of both gender just get left in the dust and spiral out into their own problems. Now, I'm not by any means trying to take away women's problems, they're real, but I'm not a woman, so I'm not, you know, quite as qualified to speak for them as I am about men's problems. And I've seen a lot of men's problems, I've lived a lot of men's problems. Part of my own journey to finding forgiveness from my father for what he did to me and what he did to my sister was going deep into the psychology of what are men's problems, how do our brains work. And despite what a lot of people might want to say, men's and women's brains brains work very, very, very differently. If you are married, you know this. If you're not married, you probably should still know this too. It's not hard to see.
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And right now there's not a lot of great support for, especially for faithful men who are like trying to do this thing and follow their faith, and, and it's not working, and they don't know why, and no one's able to help them. And a lot of it's because the way that help is delivered in our society isn't compatible with men. I mean, I'm just going to call this out, like, I love—
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