Stop Dismissing Feelings: Self-Reflection

So we gotta quit dismissing things in life, man. We gotta quit dismissing people's feelings too, you know. That's part of the planks and the part of the specs, straight up though. That, that's just part of it, you know what I'm saying? Because when we dismiss people's feelings, we don't, you know, we don't— we ain't caring about certain things in life. We ain't caring about how this person may feel about this or how, you know, how, how they stance may be. We only thinking about ourselves. We only thinking about what's, what's, what's been beneficial for me. And so therefore, these little planks and these specks that we have, man, like, I can see something wrong with you and I can talk to you about what you doing and what you need to do and how you need to change your ways doing this, that, and the third. But as I'm talking to you about that, those same issues that I'm talking to you about, I have, I have dismissed them in my life. So I have these issues too that I've never solved. So how can I get the planks out of my brother's eyes when I got specs in my own eye? First I got to get them out of my eyes first before I go talking to somebody about what they need to do about their life. If I got the same issues they got, what type of advice or what type of encouragement can I give them honestly to move forward when I haven't moved forward from this issue myself? I mean, somebody tell me that. But oh so often this is what we do.