Ted Lasso characters discuss being underestimated and reflect on a Walt Whitman quote: "be curious, not judgmental." The insight is that people who belittled them never bothered to ask questions, which is why they got them so wrong.
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You know, Rupert, guys have underestimated me my entire life. And for years, I never understood why. It used to really bother me.
And if you're the one who's underestimated, oh, my gosh. Is that an opportunity of strength?
Then one day, I was driving my little boy to school, and I saw this quote by Walt Whitman. It was painted on the wall there. It said, be curious, not judgmental. I like that. So I get back in my car, and I'm driving to work, and all of a sudden, it hits me. All them fellas that used to belittle me, not a single one of them were curious. And I realized that they're underestimating me. Who I was had nothing to do with it. Because if they were curious, they would ask questions.