Mihail Pautovmedic, IC Fundeni · Doctor Mihail - Medic specialist în chirurgie generală, Educator de sănătate

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1 Jul 2025 · 1 min

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A short YouTube self-help monologue by Mihail Pautov advising listeners to do inner healing before entering relationships. The speaker argues that people heal in relationship to a degree but warns against bringing unresolved trauma into partnerships; encourages doing personal work first and distinguishes material purchases (bags, cars, travel) as entertainment rather than genuine self-love.

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Before finding the right one, be the right one. Go do the work. Psychology tells us that we actually heal in relationship, not alone. What do you think about that? It's true to a certain extent. If I'm broken and I go and I meet the right man, my soulmate, and I'm broken, I will lose the man. So before finding the right one, be the right one. Go do the work. And when you attract your partner, you attract a mirror. And that mirror shows you your problems. It's unfair to know that you have some issues and you walk into a relationship with dirty shoes. It's not fair for me to bring my trauma to a man's life and to hurt him with it. Take the time off and go do the healing. And only when you choose to do this. This is when you love yourself. Flying, buying bags, buying cars is beautiful. It's fun. Everybody loves these, these fun things, the 3D things. But the truth is that's not self love, that's entertainment.