Take control of your perimenopause by scheduling your priorities in this order: health, time, relationships, finances. Use shared digital calendars to organize deliberately so life happens for you, not to you.
Literally, the majority of us nowadays, we live and die by our schedule. And if you don't have a schedule, maybe that's your problem. Maybe you need a schedule, right? And it's so easy nowadays. Literally, Google will give you a free calendar and you can color code it and share it with your husband or your kids and do all these things. Like, Ashley and I share our schedules so I can look and see what she's doing at any time of day. Like, oh, Ashley's at Bible study. I better not text her right now. Or she's picking up her kid. Because when you start to just take ownership over your time and your life, then life doesn't happen to you. It happens for you. Right? Like, I just felt life was lifing all over me. Like, I could use a. A nastier word. It was doing all kinds of stuff to me. And it doesn't feel good when life is lifing on you. So I'm like, okay, I need to take better control of my life. The most valuable thing that we have is our health, then our time, then our relationships, and then our finances and job. Like, it should be in that order. Because if you don't have your health, doesn't matter how much money you have or how much time you have, because all you care about is trying to fix your health. If you don't have time, you can't enjoy your money, you can't enjoy your health, you can't enjoy your family. So it really is like, let's prioritize what we care about, and then let's actually create a schedule that represents our priorities, our dreams, our desires, and stop letting life, just life all over us.
