Dr. Tabatha Barber explains why women's arousal works differently than men's. Men get hard quickly on their own, but women need slow buildup: kissing, touching, massage, and foreplay before sex feels good.
Men wake up with that blood flow right there, and we do not. We need to encourage that. I love the nitric oxide, but what else can we do to get that blood flowing?
I always say to guys when I'm talking to the men on the men's podcast, I say, turn around and come back and get us. You're way further along than we are. You need to slow down, slow down some more, and then go half that speed and then cut that by 50%, and then you might be where we are. We need a lot of engorgement, a lot of kissing, breast play, nipple play, full body touch, hair stroking, eye gazing, relaxation, foot rubs, yoni massages, oral pleasuring before you ever even bother to try to get that thing inside us. And they just don't know because they don't live in our bodies.
