Elay Amitay Halevi argues you should enter relationships for self-transformation, not security. Release timelines and control. If your partner doesn't grow with you, they'll leave, but the work on yourself is never wasted.
If you're with someone who has commitment issues, here's something to look out for as a reason why they cannot commit. In a relationship, everyone is always so concerned, Am I going to waste my time? Is this the right one or is this the wrong one? Here's a different way that you can look at it. Pursue a relationship that you feel is right for you, with the goal not of the relationship working out, but of you elevating who you are to a higher vibration. You are now going to grow your consciousness as a result of this relationship. Make that the goal. And what happens when you do elevate your consciousness is that the person you are with also elevates with you. Or they will leave. You cannot lose if you just work on yourself. I let go of the timeline. I let go of the need to know the future. I truly surrender to the Creator what I think is right for me and I focus on what I need to transform and grow inside.
