Trying to impress someone by flexing or showing off backfires. The most attractive thing is having nothing to prove. When you stop forcing an outcome and let things unfold naturally, you show up as your best self.
If I go out on a date and I start to be inauthentic or flex or try to show, or maybe drive up, pick her up in my nicest car, or even I've seen some people rent a nice car, they kind of go out of their way. Yes. And it's not really their authentic vibration. What you could be doing is actually manipulating someone to like you when in reality she wasn't ever meant to be with you for a long period of time. But now you've overridden what creation is trying to do for you in manipulating the scenario. Yes. So, you know, the most attractive quality in a man will be when he doesn't have anything to prove. Meaning if I go out on a date, I truly don't know who's meant to be with me, and I have to surrender that. Now, I will go to be the best version of myself, and I'll go show up in the right light. We have to be careful because you could work really hard to try to get someone to love you, but what if their soul was not meant to be with you for that long? What if that person is going to be very destructive in your life?
