The Mindset That Makes Success Inevitable

Becoming successful in your reality boils down to the decisions that you make. But the decisions that you make are not random. They are triggered by your mindset, by your energy, by your identity. Think about it. You know all the things that you could do to become successful. You could do more cold calls. You could set up that landing page. You could track your finances. You could finally start posting content. You know, all the things that you could do. That could is where dreams go to die. And the reason that there's a could or a should there, rather than you just getting the idea and executing, rather than you just doing the things and making the decisions, is because you have barriers up in your mind between you and the reality of success that you desire. There is a misalignment in your paradigm with success. Anytime that you say, I could, or I should, or you get an idea and you let it just kind of float away and you never execute on it, I want you to start noticing that that is a gap that represents a gap between you and your most successful timeline. And the way that you're going to shorten that gap is by changing your paradigm in your beliefs so that they actually correspond with the reality of success. So most people, they want the success, they want the money, they want the recognition, they want the business, they want whatever it is, whatever success looks like to you. What you can't have success in physical reality until you become energetically successful internally. Becoming successful in reality requires you to have a mindset of success first and foremost. And particularly if you're wanting to have quite an exceptional experience in reality, if you want results that most people don't have, you're going to have to cultivate a mindset that most people don't have. And you're going to have to have such a strong and resilient mindset that no amount of challenges, setbacks, triggers, obstacles can stand in your way. Because the path to success, most people, you know, they think it's going to look one way. But typically, the path to success looks like a series of failures. Looks like a series of trials and tribulations. And in order for you to be able to move through that path and make it to the reality of success, you have to cultivate what I call the Invincible Success Paradigm. In this life, especially on your journey to success, you will be challenged. Your reaction to those challenges is what defines your results. And your reaction is triggered by your paradigm. So a lot of people worry about whether they're going to make the right decision, whether they're going to fail, whether they're going to embarrass themselves, whether they're going to make a mistake, whether they're ever even going to make it. They're looking at all these things that they can't control rather than focusing on the one thing that they can control, which is their paradigm. Your paradigm, effectively, in case you're wondering what that word is, is simply a set of beliefs. It's your belief system about a particular area of your life. And the thing that I want you to just know straight away is you can set your beliefs to align with the reality where no challenge can slow you down, where every failure becomes an opportunity, and where success becomes inevitable. That is a mindset, you guys, and it's the mindset that every successful person alive has cultivated. And it's the mindset that I'm going to be sharing with you today. Okay, so we have 8 mindset shifts today that we're going to go through that will help you to cultivate an invincible success paradigm. The first mindset shift is focusing on character over outcome. If you're new to my videos, welcome. This is something I probably mention in every single video. If you're not new, this is going to be a very important reminder. You cannot lose when you're focusing on the only thing you can control, which is your character. So most people are focusing on the wrong thing. They're focusing on having an outcome in physical reality. They're focusing on, I wish I had $10,000, rather than focusing on becoming the version of them that already has $10,000 per month or whatever it is because we've been trained to mostly focus on the external and focus on having things, we've actually got the order of creation backwards in reality, and it's stopping us from focusing on what matters most, which is our character and how we're actually showing up. So we see this in the Bible in Genesis. It says, be fruitful, multiply, and have dominion. So the order of creation is be, then do, then you will have. Not have, then you will do, and then you will be, which is the order that most people operate from. And we can even see this like tangibly. I'm gonna give you an example of this. When I first started in the business world, I had a marketing agency, if you can even call it that. I had like a few clients, but it was a marketing agency. And I was shocked. I was very, very lucky from a young age. I was instilled with the belief that you should always be doing your best. You should always be your best regardless of what's going on, externally. And so I started this business, and I was so focused on being the best that I could be, on doing the best that I could do, that I ended up getting my clients really good results pretty early on. And one thing that I realized in that space is a lot of people were not focusing on being their best and doing the best that they could do. They were just focused on the having. They were just focused on the money. They were focused on making it sound like they had something good to offer so that make the sale and take the money. But when it came to actually delivering the service and actually being of value, they were not focused on that so much. And I quickly began to realize a lot of people are not actually trying to do their best or be their best. It's actually a very small minority group of people that end up at the top level of something, i.e., becoming the most successful. And this, I believe, is because most people are so focused on having, having, having that they forget that the only person they're really in competition with is themselves. And if they could just focus on being the best that they could be and getting 1% better every single day, then they would, they would naturally correspond when they looked after being better. Their energy, their identity would shift, their perspective would shift. They would know the actions to take to do better., and then naturally the results from those actions of having better would be a natural byproduct. And I want you to think of it like this, okay? Whatever you have right now in your physical reality, whatever results you have, whatever income you have, whatever success or lack thereof that you have, it's been a natural byproduct of what you've been doing. Whatever actions you've been taking or not taking have corresponded with those results. And the actions that you've been taking, the things that you've been doing, are a natural byproduct of who you've been being, who you've been showing up as, the character that you've been embodied in. You don't need to think about really the actions that you're doing. You kind of take them automatically. You don't really need to think about the results that's happening as a byproduct of those actions. Those happen automatically. For example, if you are being in an energy of lack, if you're embodied in a belief system, in a frequency of lack, you're going to take actions naturally that correspond with that beingness. You are going to take actions and make decisions that keep you in a reality of lack. So if you want to have better results, you need to take better actions. But before you can take better actions, you need to become a better version of you. So the question that I ask you is, have you actually been doing your best? And this is a little check-in that you want to have with yourself pretty consistently if you want to become the most successful version of you. Check where your focus is. And when you notice that you are placing a lot of focus on what you have or what you don't have, and you're worrying about how to get there, well, check back in with yourself and ask yourself, have you actually been doing your best? Because typically, That's the only thing that's within your control, and it's the only thing that really matters. If you consistently become the best you can be, you will become an outlier automatically, because 99% of people do not do their best. And your results, whatever results you desire in your reality, they will look after themselves automatically, so long as you are focused on becoming that version of you who has them already. So success is about becoming the version of you who naturally corresponds to successful outcomes. And so long as you never give up on doing your best and becoming that version of you, then success is inevitable. So the second mindset shift to cultivating an invincible success paradigm is to reframe your association with what is difficult or hard. So successful people have a very different relationship to discomfort than people who are not so successful in physical reality. And you can even see this if we take the example of someone who's physically fit, who's, who's achieved success in health and fitness, for example, as a category. Someone who has not been so successful in that category sees going to the gym and eating healthy as very hard. They see it as too difficult or too challenging. Doing. When they think about doing it, they associate a lot of pain with that type of discomfort of going to the gym, lifting the weights, following a meal plan. And so because their brain associates so much pain with doing that activity, they don't do it. They give in to the Doritos and to the couch, and they lay there and they just never change their behavior. If you look at someone who's been very successful in their health and fitness, they have a very different relationship with the discomfort that is required to become healthy and fit. When they think about going to the gym and lifting weights, yes, they're gonna think, yeah, this is hard, but they're thinking about what they're going to get from that discomfort. So there's a key distinction here. You're either, in either situation, so let's say you're sitting on the couch eating the Doritos, or you have the decision to go to the gym and lift weights. Okay, those are your two decisions. One of them is actually uncomfortable in a constrictive way, and one of them is uncomfortable in an expansive way. When you decide to stay in the comfort zone and not do the thing that's going to maybe grow you or evolve you, you're actually choosing something that is hard in a constrictive way. Why? Because with the option of not going to the gym, you're choosing the pain of living your whole life not feeling like your best self. You're choosing actually the pain of feeling unhealthy, feeling unfit, not feeling good in your body, because that's a familiar pain, rather than choosing the pain of going to the gym and having temporary discomfort for long-term gain and satisfaction. So typically what this boils down to, and if you want to start reframing your mindset so that you can cultivate a success paradigm, you've got to change your relationship to discomfort and start to realize that most of the things that we choose in the short term for pleasure are going to bring us long-term discomfort that far outweighs any short-term discomfort that would come with taking the action that's going to grow us. So there's two types of hard: expansive hard or constrictive hard. It's highly unlikely that you will become successful if you are constantly choosing the option that gives you temporary satisfaction and avoids pain temporarily, but causes you to suffer pain long-term, like procrastination as another example. Okay? So you think, oh, I need to get this task done, right? Let's say you need to finish an essay and you know it's due on Friday, maybe it's Tuesday. And rather than facing the discomfort now head-on and completing it now, you decide to sit in discomfort long-term until Friday, knowing that you're going to have to face the discomfort anyway at one point. So there's two roads here. I want you to start choosing, like, seeing these decision moments as two, two paths, right? When you're faced with a decision like this, where you're either going to have to face a pain or discomfort now and let it just grow you now, or you can avoid it and just push it away and procrastinate it, those two options are going to unfold like this. Option A, you don't do the thing. Okay, so let's say this essay, you don't do the thing on Tuesday. You kind of sit in this discomfort and this suffering, because this thing is in the back of your mind. So everything that you do up until you do this thing is laced with like this heaviness, and this feeling of I should be doing something else. So you're experiencing like low-level pain and discomfort constantly anyway, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Thursday night comes around, you realize, wow, I need to do this essay. You sit down and do the essay, you realize you don't have that much time to do it. So the amount of pain and discomfort that you feel when you actually finally do it is probably 2x what you would feel if you had just done it on Tuesday. So accumulative, the amount of pain and discomfort you feel by procrastinating this thing is actually much bigger than option B. Option B is Tuesday, oh, you realize I need to do this essay, You sit down to do the essay. The peak amount of pain and discomfort you feel is when you sit down to do the thing, but you start doing the thing and immediately the pain drops off and the pleasure and satisfaction of you getting this thing done starts to kick in. And then you start to actually feel like satisfied that you're doing this thing. You get it done and that pain disappears. So you experience maybe this amount of pain or discomfort when you actually do it. When you think about it on Tuesday, versus when you leave it until Friday, you might experience this amount, which is interesting because the reason that you avoided it and you didn't do it on Tuesday is because your brain attached too much challenge, struggle, pain, and discomfort with doing this thing. So you got to realize that your brain is automatically going to do this, and you need to be stronger than those thoughts that your mind is firing at you when something new or uncomfortable comes up to be done. One more example. Starting your dream business is hard. Making cold calls is hard. Doing the unknown without any evidence that it's going to work is hard. Staying in a misaligned, unfulfilling job for very low pay for your whole life is also hard. Choose your hard. They're both hard. One is expansive, one is constrictive. Successful people run headfirst at the things that are difficult, but are expansive. That is how they become successful. So I can't think now because I've reframed my paradigm. Everything that I do is challenging and difficult because everything that I do is outside my comfort zone. But it's a good type of discomfort. It's an enjoyable type of discomfort. Why? Because I've done it so many times that every single time I do something that's uncomfortable and outside of my normal range of things that I would do, even though it's maybe a little bit painful or difficult, I get so much pleasure out of it because I know the reward that I'm going to get from it. I know it's expanding me. I can't actually think of anything more difficult now than going back to a 9-to-5 job that is unfulfilling and paying me buttons, right? So you can only cultivate this mindset by changing your association right now with what is hard. And I'm just going to give you a really fun fact just so you have this in your head. Most people who are making a lot of money, who are extremely successful, yes, they worked hard, but they have a life that's more on their terms. A lot of very, very successful people, don't actually work as much as people who are working 9-to-5 jobs. Once they have all their systems and structures set up, they can kind of take a more hands-off approach and the business starts working for them. I used to work in a medical device factory. Working in that factory to me is harder than what I do now. As part of your Invincible Success Paradigm, you have to start viewing discomfort, challenge, and doing difficult things as Evidence that you are expanding beyond your old patterns, and that is a good thing. Okay. The third mindset shift is that failure does not exist. This is one that took me a while to learn, but once you get this, you become so unstoppable. A lot of people are slowed down by this fear of failure. What is failure? Who came up with that? You made a mistake, something didn't work out, the plan fell through, you lost some money. Okay, these things are happening objectively. Maybe your video flopped, maybe no one bought your thing. You could define that as a failure, or you could define that as feedback. People with a mindset for success who actually succeed in life, they see that as feedback, not as definitive, not as the end of the road. Not as a failure where they're never going to recover from it. No. So the people who you see that are most successful in this world, they have failed their way to success. And they've treated every single failure simply as an opportunity to learn. There's a quote that I absolutely love. It's, you are either learning or you're earning. And anytime that you're not earning in reality, anytime that maybe you are experiencing a setback, that is simply an opportunity for you to learn something that you've never learned before so that you can become the version of you who can earn whatever it is you want to earn at this next level. When I first started on YouTube, I felt like a big fat failure because I had an expectation that I was going to get a million views on my first video, which by the way, we just hit a million views on a video. Thank you guys. That is wild. What? Not wild. I've been manifesting that for years, but it's surreal. So thank you all so much. But anyway, when I started on YouTube just over 2 years ago, I— my definition of success was in my first few videos, I'm gonna get loads of views, maybe not a million, but I was gonna go viral immediately. I didn't. I was getting like 100 views per video for the first few videos. So to my mind back then, that was a failure. If I had stayed in resistance to the feedback of only getting a few hundred views per video, and I just dwelled and said, this means that I'm not good enough. This means that I'm a failure, which I did for a little while until I pulled myself out of that place. I never would've been able to objectively look at, well, what is this feedback here to teach me? What is this feedback here to tell me? What's not working? What can I take responsibility for? That is the mindset of success. You don't take the failure or the feedback to heart and make it mean there's something wrong with you. You take it as data, as information, and you go, okay, this isn't working. What can I take responsibility for? What can I change? And what can I learn from this? When you treat failures like that, you cannot fail. You can only grow and evolve. So from that new mindset and that new perspective, I actually watched my videos and I said, you know what, these are not that good. These are not that good. The lighting is bad. The sound is bad. I didn't even plan them very well. I haven't been reading. I haven't been researching. And boom, I was able to see all of the feedback from this setback that I needed in order to learn and grow and evolve. So that I could earn my next level of success. That is how the path works. Every successful person has failed their way to success, and the only way that they were able to do that is because they were humble enough to learn before they earned. So every setback is a learning opportunity. You cannot lose when that is your mindset. Mm, this next one, I love this next one. The fourth mindset shift is that nothing is bigger than you. Newsflash, you can learn any skill. Maybe you're fighting with me in your head right now because you're thinking, no, I can't, I can't play the piano, I can't do— You can do anything. You can do anything unless you have some sort of physical ailment. But people who have physical ailments have made seemingly impossible things possible and made things happen. If you're sitting there telling yourself that you can't learn how to do public speaking, or that you can't learn how to network, or that you can't learn how to set up a website, or that you can't learn how to create content, or that you can't learn how to run your dream business, whatever it is you want to do, I'm going to give you an example right now. Somebody who was able to learn skills who tangibly on paper could have said, I'll never be able to do that. There's a man called Nick— like, I'm not going to be able to say his surname— Nick Vujicic. Vujcic. Nick was born without arms or legs and he learned to swim, type, write, and live independently. And he became an international speaker and author. He developed those skills because he set his mind to it. He made a decision that he was going to learn, practice, and develop whatever skills necessary to do the things that he wanted to do. And that decision was stronger than any potential limitation in the physical world or in his physical body. So when you decide to learn something and you decide that you're going to become someone and develop the skills to become that person, only then will all the resources you need become available to you. That only then will you start perceiving that you have all the resources you could ever need to be able to do this thing. Every master, every person that has mastered anything in this physical world, they started by taking small and consistent steps. You see, most people, they get freaked out. They think, oh my gosh, I'm never going to be a public speaker or whatever it is. I'm never going to be able to be this author, because they're looking at these big international bestsellers, for example. And they're seeing like this whole body of work and these beautifully done books. And they're like, wow, I can't do that. And they don't realize developing a skill is not a one-and-done thing. You don't need to suddenly wake up one day and know how to write an international bestseller. No, you need to wake up one day and decide you're going to take the first step and decide you're going to start being consistent in taking the steps needed to master that skill. So that bestselling author, they didn't overnight become a bestselling author. They put in hours and hours of writing, of research, of trying and failing, of drafting, of publishing, of maybe a few books, maybe hundreds of books before they got that bestseller. So most of us are comparing our starting point to someone else's 10,000 hours. And then we're getting overwhelmed thinking, oh my God, this is so much bigger than me. I could never do that. When you have all the resources available to you to be able to build up your skill level and put in the reps to do this thing. So please realize nothing is bigger than you. You can learn any skill. You have every resource available, especially in this day and age. There's so much free education available on YouTube. Everything is right there at your fingertips, especially if you have a full functioning body, senses, mind, free time, a roof over your head, enough food. You have everything you need to learn whatever skill you need to build the life of your dreams. It's all right there in front of you. The question is, are you gonna use them? And a hack I wanna give you is stop getting overwhelmed by the desired end result, by what mastery looks like. Focus on the first tangible step. So when you're first starting out, you do not need to be capable of doing a perfect speech or writing the perfect novel. You just need to be capable of taking the first step, which good news, if you didn't know it, you are perfectly capable of taking the first step. And when you take the first step, that's going to get you ready to take the second step. And when you take the second step, then you will find that you are capable of taking this third step. That is how mastery is born through small, consistent acts. So whatever you feel like is bigger than you, when you think about doing something, you think, I couldn't do that. Catch yourself. That is not the success paradigm. The success paradigm is to go, if someone else can do it, so can I. What are the steps involved? What are the layers involved? And what can I start on today that I am capable of doing right now today? What's the first step? And start stepping on that step. And then keep stepping on the steps every day until you have enough reps in that all of a sudden you're like, wow, I know what I'm doing. Wow, I'm beginning to master this thing. That is how mastery is born. You know, people ask me sometimes, like, how did you start on YouTube? How did you end up creating good YouTube content? Blah, blah, blah. And like, guys, sometimes I show up to the studio and I'm not feeling it. Like today, I'm absolutely sweating. I'll be honest, I'm sweating. I'm taking little breaks here and there to drink some water and catch my breath because I'm very warm. It's not a free-flowing thing. But the presence that you see here today and I'm still miles away from the level that I have in my mind of the greatness that I'm going to end up at. However, when I started on YouTube, I couldn't barely string a sentence together. I had to go through my first YouTube video, you guys. I literally had to make it as easy as possible. I locked myself in the bathroom in my house so no one would hear me. I put it on my iPhone and I had bullet points and I had to keep looking at the point. Thinking about it. And then I'd press play on my iPhone, say that paragraph, pause the video, catch my breath, because I was so out of breath, I literally couldn't breathe. I didn't know how people spoke for a long period of time without getting out of breath, because that was a skill I hadn't mastered yet. But I did it in steps, step by step. So I'd get good at saying a paragraph, I would take a break, catch my breath. And then I would say another paragraph, I would take a break, catch my breath. And then I'd say another paragraph. And then I did that for a few videos. And then all of a sudden, I was able to flow for sections. And then I got to a point where I was able to flow for a whole video. But I wasn't able to do that at first. So when you get to a new level, you have to be the minimally viable version of you for that level. You can't compare your step 1 to someone else's step 100,000. It's just not fair to you. And it's not fair to the person either. Like, you kind of have to have the humility to realize that success takes a lot of reps.. And that's why it's also so important to pursue a version of success that feels meaningful and interesting to you. Go all in on the reps. The success will take care of itself automatically. The fun thing about consistency as well, before we move on to the 5th one, is it compounds, right? So at first, like the first few weeks of you developing this new skill, those are usually the most difficult because you're so new. You've got so much resistance, you've got so much self-doubt that you're just like, ah, I don't want to do this thing. Like when you go to the gym. So for those of you who don't know, I used to be a powerlifter. When I first started in the gym, I felt awful, as does everyone. And then I started to get kind of strong and I started to feel good and see results. And then it started to become more enjoyable. And then when I started in powerlifting again, I felt like, oh my gosh, I'm so weak compared to everyone in powerlifting. And it didn't feel good for a long time until I started to change my mindset and I got like more of an athlete's mindset and identity. Then I became really consistent and then Once I became super consistent with nutrition and training, the results started compounding extremely quickly. So that's the fun thing about consistency. When you become super consistent and you really focus on putting the reps in, yes, for the first little while you're going to have this resistance and discomfort because this thing is new, but then you're going to hit that tipping point where all that consistency starts to compound. That's when you have momentum and that's when you start seeing real changes and results in your skills, in your energy, in your actions, and in your reality. The 5th mindset shift in order to cultivate an invincible success paradigm is to operate from your meaningful vision. So what do I mean by meaningful vision? A meaningful vision is essentially a purpose or an aim or a goal or an idea that is so exciting to you that you just can't help but get out of the way of its achievement, essentially. So it's like this thing, it's just driving you so much. It's so meaningful to you that you have no choice but to become the version of you who can have that thing. That's a meaningful vision. And the reason that you need a meaningful vision if you want to have a successful paradigm is because a meaningful vision will will kick in and drive you when willpower drops off. The most successful people in this world, they have that strong push motivation, but they also have that pull motivation. Think of it like this. If you got two people doing software engineering, one people genuinely love software engineering, they just have a passion for it. The other person is doing it because it pays well. Eric, who loves software engineering, he spends 15 hours a day working on software engineering because he's so interested in it. He's so passionate about it. He's so curious about what you can build with it. Versus Tom, he just spends like 5 to 6 hours a day. He kind of does the minimum amount of work and effort because yes, he wants money, but he doesn't care that much about software engineering. Who do you think is going to be more successful? Who do you think is going to generate more creative solutions, higher quality work? Who do you think is going to align with better opportunities and create better results? It's gonna be Eric. Okay? So the power of a meaningful vision cannot be understated. And yes, every single person has a meaningful vision. If you don't know your 10-year plan or your 5-year plan right now, that's fine. But you just wanna start with defining what would a life on your terms look like? What does success on your terms look like? And you really wanna define this from possibility over limitation. You wanna define this from your intuition and not from logic. Listen to me. If you keep defining your life from the past, from logic, you are going to stay trapped within the limitations of the past. If you have a desire for something that's coming from your intuition, that's not logical at all, that maybe your logic is trying to talk you out of, you have that desire for a reason and it is possible for you to achieve it, but only if you start taking it seriously. Only if you take a pen and a piece of paper and actually write it down and start saying to yourself, I don't know how, but this is where I'm going to go. The truth is, you don't need to know how. I have tons of videos on letting go of the how, on trusting intuition over logic. But essentially, you should be defining your vision from your intuition and then let logic kick in later on. Don't define your vision from logic alone, because your logic can only give you ideas and ways how, based on the past. And if, if you want to stay in the past, if you want to keep creating the same circumstances, that's fine, stay there. But odds are your most successful aligned life is not going to be created from your old logic. The version of you who's in your most successful timeline, it's a different version of you. And what's logical to them is very different than what's logical to this old version of you. So don't let your old logic kill your dreams and kill your desires because that old logic is not coming with you to this dream reality. Think about it like this. Okay, let's say you get this crazy idea. And you start, you start saying, that's not possible. That's not logical, blah, blah, blah. Think about the version of you who's there. What's logical for them? Or, or an idol or a role model that you have that maybe has the results that you desire. Is what you desire logical for them? If the answer is yes, then that means it's possible. And you don't need to kill it with your old logic. So your intuition will take you places in this reality that your logic will never. It's that divine, imaginative, non-physical component of you that is your compass. When you follow it, it's going to take you to a version of success that truly feels like success to you. So define a meaningful vision, a meaningful aim, and define it from your intuition, not from logic alone. Also, if you don't have a meaningful vision, if you don't have like a why, that genuinely means something to you, you are not going to be resourced enough to withstand challenges. You are not going to feel that intrinsic drive to get you through the low moments. So you have to have a meaningful vision and you have to stay connected to that. The sixth, sixth, the sixth mindset shift to move into an invincible success paradigm is to realize that there is more than enough. All of us are limiting ourselves far too much. We seem to think that everything is in short supply. Yes, we have been programmed with an idea of lack. That idea is not reality. The way that the economy is spoken about, the way that the job market is spoken about, the way that everything, the resources in the world are spoken about, instills us with this false idea of lack. That is not the truth of this universe. The truth is there is infinite supply. There is an infinite amount of money circulating in this world. They just print more of it. It just keeps being created. There is an infinite amount of opportunity available to you. There are infinite amount of resources available to you. There are infinite amount of connections that you could make. There's an infinite amount of ideas that you could align with in the quantum field and begin collapsing into material form. Everything is already created. Energy cannot be created or destroyed. Every potential already exists in the field for you to correspond with. We are not living in a finite universe. We are living in an infinite universe. There is more than enough available to you. So abundance, money, resources, success, opportunity, all of this stuff is in infinite supply because it's existing as an energetic potential in the field, just waiting for you to believe in it, to ask for it, to correspond with it so that you can start experiencing it physically. And it's like, this stuff is existing as waves of potential. It's like, it's as freely available as the air we breathe. It's available equally and evenly to every single person in this universe. And it's almost like, we think we're gonna rob another person of abundance or of success if we become successful. That's like thinking, if I breathe this air, then the other person beside me is going to not have air to breathe. When I tell you it's an infinite supply, it means there is more than enough available to everyone. If every single person pursued their highest ideals, there would still be more than enough available after that. I think as a human race, we have not even scratched the surface as to what's possible for us. Think about it. Throughout history, we are constantly raising the bar. For the amount of money one person can make, the amount of success one person can have. The things that once seem impossible keep becoming possible athletically, in business, in our inventions, in technology. Over time, again and again and again, we keep creating more and more and more of what seemed to once be impossible. So think about that, right? Think about what's been possible now in this last decade, which maybe centuries ago would have seemed impossible. And now think about in a couple of centuries what will be possible then that we now are thinking, oh, that's not possible. We're constantly defining ourselves from limitation when we don't realize that we are the one creating the limits because we have an unlimited universe. We have a God that is unlimited, that created everything that's in creation, and we're the only ones that are capping what we can experience. There is more than enough health— there's more than enough wellness! There's more than enough vitality! There's more than enough money! There's more than enough resources! There's more than enough connection! There is more than enough love! There is more than enough success! There's more than enough opportunities! There is more than enough support available to you! The question is... Are you going to start believing in it? And are you going to start asking for it?! Have the audacity to ask for it! Have the audacity to ask for it. If you do not ask, you cannot receive. So believe, know, feel. This is an infinite universe. You're an infinite soul playing a finite game in a physical temporary body. Start playing the game with the tools you've been given. Start knowing and believing there is more than enough and start having the audacity to demand it. 'If one opportunity passes you by, realize there are an infinite number of other opportunities available to you. If you lose money in one venture, realize there is an infinite amount of financial supply available to you. It is all right there waiting for you to align with it.' So it's not that good things aren't available to you. It's that you don't believe in good things being available to you. You believe more in bad things happening to you than good things happening to you. You believe more in your limitations than you do in what's possible for you. And a successful person is focusing constantly on the possibility. So if you feel like there's not enough and you catch yourself thinking thoughts of limitation and telling yourself there's not enough, or there's a limited amount of resources available to you, ask yourself, who is your supplier? Who is supplying these things? Come on, think about it. It's not Mom, it's not Dad, it's not the economy as you've been tricked to believe, it's not your false lack programming, it's not some magical illusory system. No. Who is actually supplying this whole experience? Who supplied this world, this physical body, everything in existence, the energy consciousness that is you? It's God. God is your supply. And when God is your supply, there are no limits because God is infinite and God created everything. So there can only ever be more than enough. Take off the ceiling. Oh my God, I'm begging you, take off the ceiling, take off the limits, take off these chains that the world has put on you. Remember that you are infinite, and remember that you have infinite potential, and there are infinite possibilities for your experience. The only limitations are the ones that you place on yourself. The 7th mindset shift to cultivate an invincible success paradigm is to focus on servitude over the self. So you cannot lose when you are truly in an energy of servitude, when you've connected to your vision, and when you are genuinely just focused on serving and giving value to the people that you are supposed to serve. You have to via the law of reciprocity, receive value in exchange for that value delivered. Okay, so this is the law of reciprocity. And it essentially states that when you give to another freely, with no ulterior motive, with no other agenda, rather than to genuinely help and serve and give value to another, then you have to receive value by exchange. You have to. That is the law. The only way that you negate the law of reciprocity is when you are giving value with an ulterior motive, when you are giving value in an energy of selfishness or self-interest or self-gain without having the person that you're serving as the priority and at the top of your mind. So this is something that I learned last year. I got into a little bit of a rut with creating, with coaching, and I kind of got in my head a little bit. I think I was going through a trigger. I became a bit self-conscious, and all of a sudden my energy shifted from servitude, just thinking like, what does my community need? What do my clients need? To self-interest. I started thinking, what could I share that would look really intelligent? What could I say on this coaching call that will make me sound like I know what I'm talking about? So I think I was, I think I was dealing with a bit of insecurity or something was going on.. But I came out of the energy of servitude, and immediately I stopped making so many sales. I stopped getting so many views. I stopped creating actually good content. And my coaching calls during that time didn't last very long, thank God. My coaching calls were not as good as they could have been. Why? Because I was focused on the self rather than focused on who I was serving. Therefore, what I was delivering was not as impactful or beneficial as it could be. And then I was listening to the book Working with the Law by Raymond Holywell, and he spoke about this law of reciprocity. And he said, whatever you do, if you are doing it from like an ulterior motive or trying to gain something for yourself, it's going to negate the law. And I realized I had been listening to that freaking audiobook with the intention of I'm going to learn something clever here, which is kind of funny because now maybe it's actually fulfilling his purpose, but I'm going to learn something clever here in this book that I can maybe quote in my YouTube video later this week. That's going to make me sound like I know what I'm talking about and make me look good. Rather than I'm listening to this book to expand my mindset, to learn principles, to get to the truth of the universe so that I can help people shift their energy and empower themselves and change their life. Do you see the difference in those two energies? And what I was learning from the energy of like being self-interested and just like self-soothing this insecurity was very different and very constricted compared to what I learn when I'm in the energy of like, how can I help people? What do other people need me to learn so that I can serve them? So as soon as I had this epiphany, I remember I was cooking and I heard that on this, on this podcast. I realized what I'd been doing. I'd been acting from self-interest, and I realized how limited that was, I came out of it immediately. I shifted my focus back to who I was serving, and I went all in on that. And from then on, everything else— my income, the growth in my channel, everything else— looked after itself automatically because I had activated the law. So focus on serving, on delivering the value you're supposed to deliver in the way that you're supposed to deliver it, to the people who need it from you, and you will receive what is rightfully yours automatically by virtue of the law of reciprocity. You cannot lose when you're in that energy. That is what the most successful people do. Because if you're thinking about success in terms of financial terms, that basically means receiving value, right? Being able to generate and exchange value. You generate and exchange value at your highest level when you are fully focused on the people who you are delivering value to. Okay, and the 8th and final mindset shift as part of your Invincible Success Paradigm is that fear is a portal to your potential. Fear is a portal to your potential. So there are 2 ways of dealing with fear. You are either letting your fear rule you and control you and keep you small, or you are running headfirst at your fear and discovering the potential that lives on the other side of that fear. That is it. And the most successful people in the world, they run headfirst at their fears. I have an inkling that God places our highest fulfillment and our most potential on the other side of the things that we fear the most. Because when you do the things that you fear the most, you really start to realize that fear is an illusion. It is a mile wide and an inch deep, and you are often like you're more scared in your imagination than you ever will be when you actually do the thing. So I did a really big podcast recently. It was really outside of my comfort zone. It was a new layer of exposure and visibility, and I was really scared in the lead up to this podcast. But when it came down to actually sitting and doing the actual thing, there was no fear. So fear is always a mile wide and an inch deep. Like it's always the scariest. When you're watching from the sidelines, when you're thinking about it. But as soon as you start doing the thing, the fear disappears. The thing about fear is you can, you can do exercises beforehand to make you feel more confident and comfortable with doing a scary thing. But the only real way to get rid of fear is to do the things that you fear. It's the only way. And you don't have to start with the thing that you're afraid of most, but you start small. You start with like doing one thing that's outside your comfort zone and realizing that it's not as bad as you thought., then you do another thing, then you do another thing, and your tolerance for withstanding fear and doing things anyway gets stronger. And that is how successful people operate. They don't feel fear and fall back and play small. No, they feel the fear and they do it anyway. This is how you stop playing small in your life. You don't realize how small you've been playing it because you've been trapped in this box of fear, and you don't even know what you're scared of, but you just know that you're— you don't want to rock the boat too much or do anything too crazy. So the way you start breaking out of that is you start doing small things that you fear on a daily basis, and you teach fear that it does not control you. Successful people are not fearless. They still feel fear, but they decide that the fear does not control them. They decide that they are bigger than the fear, and that is how they're able to create such extraordinary results. And so if you want to become your most successful version, that is something that you've got to step into as well. And a way that you can do that right now is asking yourself, what would I do if I wasn't afraid? And start doing those things now. So those are my 8 mindset shifts to cultivate an invincible success paradigm. And I just want to remind you, success is not reserved for a lucky few people. Success is reserved for the people that develop the right attitude, the right beliefs, and the right mindset. And if you go through the shifts that I shared with you today, you will be well on your way to getting in alignment with your most successful timeline. Success is not this big mysterious thing. If you're willing to keep learning, becoming, serving, and moving despite fear, success becomes inevitable. That is all for this video, guys. I hope it helped. I love you all so much, and I will see you all next week.