A Kabbalist perspective on why success in love and business requires balancing male and female energies within yourself. Male energy initiates and gives; female energy receives and manifests. Same-sex-only support causes stagnation.
For anything to succeed in life, whether that's in love, business, or personal growth, the Kabbalists do say that it must contain both male and female energy. Male energy is the force of sharing, of initiating and giving. It's a flow of energy. Female energy is the force of receiving, nurturing, and as a result, manifesting it is the vessel. When these two forces work together in harmony, they give birth to new blessings. When women only support women or men only support men, there's an imbalance that is created which leads to a stagnation of energy and then ultimately conflict. True power comes when we honor both forces, not just on the outside, but within ourselves. If there's an area of your life that you are stuck, it is probably because you're in conflict with with someone of the opposite energy outside of you. Look in your life. If there is a man that you're in conflict with or a woman that you're in conflict with, this could be disturbing. The powers of manifestation that exist within your soul. Here's a mantra for you. I ask the Creator to remove all of the conflict, blame or hatred I have for anyone outside of me, so that there is harmony within my soul and I can manifest miracles.
