A short YouTube monologue (speaker: Elay Amitay Halevi) discussing why the question “When are you having kids?” can be harmful—carrying pressure, judgment, and ‘evil eye’—and offering a Kabbalistic perspective that favors trust, honoring individual soul paths, and replacing expectation with presence. Includes a closing mantra promoting trust in divine timing and wholeness.
People often think they're just making conversation when they ask, when are you having kids? But energetically, that question can carry pressure, judgment, and is a form of evil eye. The moment you ask, when are you having kids? Why haven't you had kids? Do you want to have more kids? You're assuming something is missing. You're placing them in a vibration of lack, and you're in a very subtle way projecting that their life is incomplete without children. They that they are in some way behind, or that they owe the world an answer to something that is actually quite private. Kabbalah teaches that jealousy and evil eye isn't just a form of envy and me wanting something that you have. It's actually when you judge a person, you're giving them evil eye. Anytime you look at someone's life and think, why don't they have this? Yet you energetically create resistance in their path. But what if their soul's journey is just different than yours, different than societies? What if they're struggling with something and you can't see it? Instead of asking, when are you having kids? Say, I trust your path is unfolding exactly as it should now. Instead of pressuring them, you're honoring them. Instead of placing expectation on them, you're offering your presence and you're holding space. Here's a mantra for you. I replace expectation with trust and certainty. I honor every soul's unique path. I affirm that there is divine timing, that there is wholeness at every moment, and the perfect unfolding of life will occur.
