When you stop needing someone to feel whole, that wholeness becomes magnetic. The speaker argues that true self-love and spiritual completeness, built through solitude and faith, is what actually draws a soulmate into your life.
If no one would be around to see your accomplishments, to praise you, to know who you are, what does that feel like? What does it feel like to be completely alone? Does it feel sad? Does it feel dark? Does it feel that this is a fear that you cannot break? If you can be comfortable with being alone, you will realize that the Creator is with you in those times more powerfully than ever before. When you are alone and you are sleeping at night and there is no one there, the Creator is there. When you are walking down the street and you see other couples, you see baby strollers, you see other people happy and you don't have that, you must know that you have the Creator most in those times. The moment you feel complete and whole, as if you are with your soulmate, is the moment your soulmate will appear. There has to be a part of you that loves your life so much the way it is, and only then will the miracle appear.
