Elay Amitay Halevi argues that making God your primary relationship creates wholeness that makes you magnetic to others. When you stop seeking completion through romantic partners and instead cultivate presence and inner completeness, you become attractive precisely because you're no longer desperate.
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As we completely surrender the old us moving into this new energy of the 15th of Leo, of the full moon, of the energy of soulmates. God is your soulmate. That's the message. Soulmate's not a person. God is your soulmate. And when you make God your soulmate, I had this joke in my Paris event. I said, God is your boyfriend. Stop looking for a boyfriend. God is your boyfriend. Go and wear the T shirt. Wear a T shirt that says, God is my boyfriend. I'm unavailable. I mean, technically, everybody seems to be attracted to someone who's unavailable. So let's all be unavailable, because God is our boyfriend. God is the person who's your soulmate. And by God, we're not saying this religiously. We're saying the energy intelligence of certainty, the energy intelligence of giving, the energy intelligence of feeling whole all the time and not needing anything. That is your boyfriend. That is the person that you will post about. That is the person you will think about all day long. That is the person you will write little notes to all day long. Write notes to your boyfriend, to God. Surrender all of the old desires, needs and narratives as we enter into this new energy. And this is how we're going to draw surgery, soulmate energy. We're going to be present. We're going to realize that infinite energy exists in every moment, even if the moment is mundane. And we're going to let go and surrender these thoughts and desires that pull us to the past and the future. And this narrative that I have about myself that I am not deserving of something because of X, Y and z reason from the past.