Successful women often sabotage promising relationships without realizing it, driven by a deep fear that partnership means losing autonomy and professional success. The pattern repeats: strong initial dates, then the limiting belief kicks in, triggering self-sabotage that ends the relationship before it can develop.
We all want to find our man. How come we can't find— and these are beautiful, strong, intelligent, hardworking, successful women. Anything they do in the business world, they accomplish. But when relationships, for some reason, all of them doesn't work out. Either the guy leaves them, they leave the guy, doesn't matter. What did we realize? They have a belief that being in a relationship means that they're now going to be controlled and they don't want that. So what happens is they go on these great dates, they meet some guy they like, but after 3, 4, or 5 dates, that subconscious belief comes up and says, sabotage this immediately. Because if you continue and you stay in this relationship, you will be limited, you will be controlled, and you won't be successful anymore. So then they find a way to sabotage it, and there we are, and that cycle continues again and again and again.
