In this solo monologue, Eric Roberts warns viewers that fitness content on social media often showcases an unattainable, curated ideal. He explains that the people viewers compare themselves to usually represent the top 1% of genetics, may use performance‑enhancing drugs, or have careers built around looking a certain way, and frequently edit their photos and videos. This creates unrealistic expectations that can lead to body dysmorphia, anxiety, and chronic self‑criticism. Roberts acknowledges the desire for self‑improvement but urges the audience to focus on personal progress rather than comparing themselves to these polished portrayals, emphasizing that incremental improvement is the true measure of success.
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Since nobody else is talking about this, I will. If you're into fitness, you probably see videos of people who look exactly like you want to look. They have big glutes, shredded abs, their back looks perfect. What you're not understanding, because of social media, you are seeing the top 1% of genetics in the entire world, and that's what you're comparing yourself to. Not to mention, you don't know what these people are doing. Maybe they're taking performance-enhancing drugs. Maybe they're entire job is to look that way and be fit that way, whereas you might be someone who works a 9 to 5, you have a family, you have a social life. Not to mention, they could very well— and most are— editing their pictures, their videos. And so you're comparing yourself to an unrealistic expectation and something that might not even be real. And then you look at yourself in the mirror, and despite working so hard, You don't look that way, and you think there's something wrong with you. I'm all for you wanting to improve yourself and get better. That's great. But when it gets to a point where you have crippling body dysmorphia, anxiety, you look in the mirror and always hate how you look because of what you see on social media, I— that just ain't it, man. So I hope you remember this video the next time you're hard on yourself. And really, all that matters is if you are doing better than what you were doing before you first started, You are winning the game, and keep going.
