Dealing with Difficult Times in Life

Do you want to know how to better deal with the difficult times in life? Well, by the end of this video, you'll know 10 techniques that will help you better deal with the inevitable difficult times that we all experience in life. And make sure that you stick around for the whole video, because I'll be sharing things that you probably haven't heard anywhere else. Hi, my name is Eric Partaker, and I've been recognized as one of the top entrepreneurs in the country and, and the CEO of the Year. I'm also the author of two bestselling books, including the Three Alarms. And most importantly for you, I've helped thousands of people realize their full potential in work and life. And please make sure to hit the subscribe button below as well as tick the notification bell so that you never miss a future video.

So the number one thing that you need to do to get better at dealing with the difficult times in life is you need to acknowledge how you feel. One of the worst things that you can do when you're feeling deep, you know, emotions, especially that relating to the difficult times that you're in, is to keep that all pent up inside. Whether you need to cry it out or whether you need to punch it out on a punching bag, whatever you need to do. But let those emotions out. Try not to repress them, especially when they're relating to the difficult things that we all experience in life. Number two, talk about it. Whatever that difficult time is, find somebody to talk about it with. A close friend, a family member, a colleague. But I've always found in my life that when I've gone through some of my lowest moments, I've had a particular friend or two that really helped me through that time that I talked to on maybe not even like a daily basis, but, you know, at least every other. Every other day or, you know, several times a week. And, and that was so, so important to help me get through that period. So think about who are the friends in your network or the family members or the colleagues that you could rely on for maybe the difficult time that you perhaps find yourself in right now and how can you reach out to them and just start talking? Let it out. Don't keep it just within you. Number three thing that you need to do to help you better deal with the difficult times in life is make sure that you're getting rid of anybody who's making life even more difficult. So that's the last thing that we need when we're trying to get through difficult times. Sometimes getting rid of doesn't necessarily mean just like axing them out of our life completely, but you might just need to have an open and honest conversation with a particular person and say, look, I'm going through a really challenging time right now, and, you know, I just need some space to process this. You know, I need some space to kind of handle this. So, you know, please don't take this the wrong way, but I. I'd really appreciate that if you could give me the space that I need so that I can kind of get through this moment. And often when you say something like that to someone, though, they'll respect, you know, whatever it is that you're asking for. Now, of course, if this person is actually making things worse and is toxic for you, well, then they need to be out of your life completely. Perhaps they're the reason that's making things unfairly difficult for you. So that's only a decision that you can make. But you need to think, how do I remove or remove myself from anybody that is making things even more difficult than they need to be? And number four, which kind of follows the previous one, is spend more time with the people that can help you. So, you know, we talked about talking about it with a friend or a particular family member, but there may be other people as well that, that you could be spending more time with, socializing with, or just being in the mere presence of that would be beneficial to you through this difficult period of time. So not so much that close friend where you're kind of putting it all out on the table and spilling everything, but is there just like a network of people that it would have positive impact on you to be spending more time with? And how can you get into plug into that network more so you could be spending more time with them and lifting your mood up and helping you through this difficult period. Now, if any of this is resonating with you, then please drop a yes down in the comments below so that we know. Number five, thing that you need to do to help get through the difficult times in life is recognize when you need some professional help. Now, I'll admit, even for me, there's been times when I felt quite a lot of benefit from going seeing, you know, a counselor or a therapist to help me think through particular moments in life that were very challenging and very difficult for me. And there's some wonderful people out there who are highly trained, very skilled at doing what they do, and they precisely are there to help people like you perhaps, who are experiencing, you know, a difficult moment or time, and they're just waiting to be able to help you. They're just waiting for you to reach out and contact them so that they can demonstrate to you that they can provide the help that you are seeking. So don't discount all of the wisdom out there that's just waiting for you to connect with so that you can get the help that you need. Number six thing that you can do to make sure that you're better able to handle the difficult times in life is to ask yourself what what's your number one self care habit? What's the number one thing that you could be doing for yourself that demonstrates the love, the appreciation and the gratitude that you need to be experiencing more regularly in your life? And how can you increase whatever that is, especially during these difficult times? Maybe it's exercise for you. Exercise is super important for you. Well, how can you increase that? But maybe it's getting enough time with friends. How can you increase that? Maybe it's having enough time to read or whatever it might be. How can you increase that? Maybe it's your sleep, whatever it may be. What's your number one self care habit? And make sure, especially when you're going through difficult times, that you're really allocating enough time, if not more time to allowing that to happen. And if you like this video so far, once again, please let us know and hit like down below and you if. And number seven, this is a segue, kind of related to the previous point about your number one self care habit. Because your number one self care habit may in fact be looking after your fundamentals such as your sleep, your nutrition, your exercise. When we're in difficult times, these things become even more important because we need that strong foundation. Studies clearly show that if we are sleep deprived, we are less likely to to be able to handle the stresses that come with life, let alone something that's very difficult or challenging. Our sleep needs to be protected. If we're not eating well, if we're eating poor foods, too much sugar, not healthy foods, these also have a negative effect on our psyche, which compounded with a difficult time in our life, can make matters even worse. Without us, without us fully appreciating and realizing it. And then exercise needs speed. Special mention as well, because exercise has been scientifically proven to boost our mood in a positive way in equivalent strength to an antidepressant. So if we're actually experiencing some difficult times, it's even more the reason we need to be exercising. Because that exercise will flood our body with the positive hormones that we need to better Process the challenges that that we're facing. Number eight, to help us better deal with the difficult times, we need to focus on action. Sometimes when things are super difficult, we can become overwhelmed and there's so many things to do and we don't even know what to do next. But here's the thing, we can only do one thing at a time. And so if you just focus on, okay, what's the next thing that I can do, when can I do that thing? And when that time arrives, just focus on that. Done, next, next thing, start, finish, next thing, and just keep going from one thing to the next. Action is often one of the secrets to getting through difficult times. Just taking that action orientation, just focusing. What's the very next action that I can take? And on that note, would love to hear in the comments below, what is the very next action that you should be taking to help you perhaps process a current difficult time or situation that you may be that you may be in? We'd love to hear from you in the comments below. Number nine. When we're in difficult times, we need to remember this idea of taking a vacation in the present moment. Sometimes difficult times can make us live in the past or make us make us anxious about the future. And similar to the idea of focusing on what's the next action that you can take, if you really just try to zero in and center yourself in the present moment, it can be a bit of a vacation because you don't have perhaps, you know, the, the, the guilt of the past or the anxiety around the future and you literally just have that moment right there in time. And so to help you better activate that vacation in the present moment, highly recommend taking up a meditation practice if you haven't yet before or re reinvigorating one if you had one in the past. But look to that present moment to provide that space, that little vacation that your mind needs, especially in difficult times. And number 10, last but not least, in difficult times, we also have to remember that time pretty much does heal all wounds. I'm sure you can relate to situations that you thought you would never get over. It was a disaster. Oh my gosh, how will I survive this? But with enough time, it gets better and that thing passes and you recover and you're all okay again. So I hope you liked today's video and if you did, please press like down below. Also would love to know what's your number one takeaway from this video. Please leave a comment below if you think somebody would benefit from hearing today's message. Please do share it with them. 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