Hadar Shemesh delivers a motivational talk encouraging learners to stop defining self-worth by others' reactions and instead pursue freedom in English by letting go of external validation. She frames learners as "creators," urging them to show up, create (record/post videos), and persist despite failures — improvement comes through repeated attempts (e.g., "after 12 attempts") and focusing on personal growth rather than likes or approval.
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What would people think? What would they say? How would they receive me? Will they like me? Will I be accepted? If you're able to let go of that external look and to define your self worth by that external look, you will be free my friend. And your English will be free. That is the real challenge in life. When you show up in these types of situations or experiences, you become a creator, right? And I want you to think of yourself as a creator and as such, you know, sometimes it's going to work and sometimes not. The most important thing is not to let that stop you because it's not about them and it's not about the number of likes. It's about you knowing that you did it, that you showed up, that you posted that video, that you recorded that video. After 12 attempts, it's okay. But that is the improvement. That is how you do it. That is how you start changing and improving step by step.