How to use the sounds you practice in conversation?

Hey, it's Hadar. Thank you so much for joining me. Today we have an Ask Hadar episode where I answer your questions. Today we have Sylvia from Brazil and she asks.

Hello, Hadar. I'm so glad to be here and get a chance to ask you questions. I started work on my speaking skills at the very end of the last year. So I started show up more in conversation. Therefore, I started paying more attention on my pronunciation and or connect. But I have to say, it's not easy at all. I still struggle with some. Some sounds and pronunciation, especially when in conversation with someone, it's quite difficult for me be aware about the right pronunciation. And then my question is what things are important for pronunciation, pronunciation practice to be successful? I want to say thank you. I really appreciate you. You are amazing and have a nice one. Bye.

All right, Sylvia, what a great question and thank you so much for your sweet words. I'm so happy that you submitted this question. All right, so this is something that a lot of students struggle with. How to take the work that you do when you work on your pronunciation and, and actually feel like you're using it in conversation. So, Sylvia, what you're feeling is not exceptional. It's not like you are just incapable of putting into practice what you learn. No, this is a very common struggle because it's very easy to learn pronunciation and to focus on it and to practice it in isolation. But it's very hard to remember all of those things or to be able to use it when you also need to think about what to say, how to retrieve all the words that you want to use, how to listen and understand what the other person is saying. Right. So there are all these things that are happening while you're in conversation that it feels almost impossible to also think about pronunciation. So here's what I have to say about. You're not supposed to think about your pronunciation or to focus on pronunciation or when you are in a conversation, unless it's a practice conversation and you're deliberately concentrated on specific things like your pronunciation, intentionally. But when you are speaking to normal people, not your practice partners out in the world, and you have to show up like yourself, you shouldn't be focusing on your pronunciation because it will take away from your confidence and from your fluency because your brain is constantly going to be consumed with the th and the r and the consonants and sounds and all of that. So my recommendation is you have to first of all trust that when you practice it effectively, gradually you'll start noticing that you're using those sounds spontaneously without thinking about it in a conversation as well. So you're actually teaching your muscles to pronounce some of the sounds differently than how you were used to. And you're actually building new speaking habits. But just like with any habit, you have to do it again and again and again. Repetition is key for you to be able to use it without thinking about it. So practice and repetition is critical. And while you probably have a lot of things to practice, I recommend that you focus on the key sounds that are important for your clarity and practice them more than the rest and really repeat those sounds in this practice so that you'll start noticing it consistently when you're speaking to others. But also, there is something that I call intentional practice that I incorporate in my teaching and my students all know about it, and that is, after you practice, you want to practice speaking on your own. Ideally, you know, making a video or recording yourself answering some sort of a question. And as you're speaking, you want to focus on the sound that you just practiced. So let's say you practice the R sound, and now you feel pretty confident with how to pronounce the R, and your practice is really good. I want you to just record yourself speaking, focusing on the R sound and making sure that you're pronouncing it correctly. And when you're done, I want you to listen to it and ask, was I doing a good job? What words did I pronounce correctly? What words did I not pronounce correctly with the R? And see, see if you can improve that. So you're doing a very focused work on speaking while being very intentional about your pronunciation. Now, this can only happen when you are in practice mode, not when you are in conversation mode, but when you do that, you're actually getting closer to being able to use it when you are in conversation. Sylvia, I hope this helps. Thank you so much for your question. And you guys, if you have any more questions, I'm going to link to my Ask Hadar link where you can submit your question on video or audio or text. Thank you so much. Have a beautiful, beautiful day, everyone, and I'll see you next week in the next video. Bye.