They criticized her English mistakes on YouTube... and this is why it’s SO MESSED UP.

Is English for everyone? Well, of course, unless you're a successful non native English speaking female YouTube creator. Let me tell you a story. A couple of weeks ago I got a message from my friend Daniela telling me, hadar, you have to check out this recent video that is getting some attention on YouTube. I'm really curious to hear what you think. Of course, due to my curious nature and natural inclination for a little bit of YouTube drama, I immediately went and checked what this was about. Now at first I thought it was just another, you know, stop saying video made in collaboration with the creators that you see now on the screen. But it took me a hot minute to understand what was really going on.

Status is kind of more academic.

In America. We always say status. We never say status.

It was a highway robbery.

We cannot say a highway robbery.

Just exaggerating it. Garabej is wrong. Garabage is right.

No, Americans are not wrong. We do not say Mercedes. We don't say pizza. We cannot say modern mo.

I was shocked because turns out that Kevin and Lisa, the creators of this video and actually similar videos on their channel, actually decided to go through a bunch of videos created by Marina Magilko, also known as Lingua Marina. She has three very successful YouTube channels pointing out every mistake, slip of the tongue or pronunciation inconsistency they could find. Now listen, I don't personally know Marina and even though we sometimes might have different views about how to teach English, I absolutely admire and respect her for being a prolific YouTube creator, a very successful entrepreneur, a mom, and also showing up unapologetically despite the criticism. And with millions of subscribers and a very successful business, she actually doesn't need my help advocating for her. She can do a pretty good job at speaking up for herself.

Yes, I'm a creator. Yes, I get hate. Yes, I get critic. Yes, I make mistakes. And I admit it. Everyone makes mistakes. The best teachers in the world make mistakes. And by the way, I think the best teacher in the world is not the one who makes mistakes, is the one who motivates.

Because we're teaching.

Like when you're teaching something, you're giving people instrument. And this instrument has to work like you can have the most perfect English in the world. But if it doesn't make your life better, why would you even have it?

So the reason why I am recording this video is because I believe that there are some behaviors in the online teaching industry, YouTube in particular, that need to be called out if we want to foster a healthy, non competitive and supportive environment. And you know what it's not just for creators, but also, and even most importantly for our audience. Because when learning a language, this is the only environment that allows people to thrive, not a competitive, judgmental environment. And if you feel that even though you've been learning English for so long, you're still consumed by the fears of making mistakes or of speaking or what people are going to think of you, I believe that videos like these are a big part of the problem and why you feel the way you feel. So for those of you who haven't watched the video, and please don't go and watch it now, don't contribute to adding more views, I'm going to tell you what this is about. The video claimed to teach you how not to make the terrible mistakes made by Marina. So it ranges from grammar to pronunciation idioms and different phrases or expressions, but with no real defining theme or topic, except for mistakes Marina makes. Now, any beginner teacher would tell you that a collection of random mistakes or random lessons without a particular theme, just like how it's presented in this video, it likely to create overwhelm because it doesn't offer real practical tools to remember, categorize and use them. So ultimately, really, such videos create more confusion than clarity. And honestly, there are many ways to teach English, including these topics that are criticized in the video. My question is, is delegitimizing another creator really the best way and most effective way to do that? Claiming them to be a fraud despite the value that they've provided for their audience? Whether you like it or not, is that what's going to create value for your audience? Or is it just an attempt to write on the success of another creator getting views using negative messaging? Because that is the problem with YouTube, TikTok, Instagram and other content platforms where which often promote quantity and engagement over quality and negativity attracts views. And it makes some content creators care more about their views than their viewers. And you know what? For those of you who might argue that they really do care about correct English, let's look at the tags below the video Viral Viral Video Hashtag Viral Video Hashtag Viral Status Viral Videos Marina Magilko Linguistics trip Lingua Trip TV Lingua Marina Marina McGilco Migilco I wonder why they haven't used correctenglish or English grammar in their tags if that was indeed their motivation. So now you may say but Hadar Marina is a teacher with a huge following. She has a responsibility, right? She's teaching English incorrectly. Oh, the shame. Yeah, well, the thing is, many of the examples that were given in those videos were taken from her vlogs where she's casually speaking or while explaining something. And honestly, I'd consider most of them as slip of the tongues or careless speaking. And I can attest as a non native speaker of English that that's what happens when you speak fast and fluently in a second language. How much do you know about that, Kevin? Creating consistent content and speaking, speaking freely in a second language. And honestly, you know, you focusing on those mistakes, most people don't even notice. You are absolutely disregarding her proficiency, confidence, flow and fluency and positive impact which is so incredibly hard to achieve and do. And by that, sending a message to your viewers that even if you sounded like her, it is still never going to be good enough. And listen, while I'm not saying that intentionally teaching English that is perceived as incorrect is a great thing, I do believe the creators of English with everyone, have taken the mission of caring for the purity of English a bit too far. And by doing that, they're causing more harm than good. And by the way, am I the only one who is bothered by the fact that a white male native speaker is telling a successful non native English speaking woman to basically keep her head down, be quiet and stop showing up because she doesn't sound like, well, him. But here's my biggest problem with this video. It's the message of what English mistakes mean that you are sending to your audience. When you publicly shame other creators who are non native speakers for their mistakes, you are basically validating your audience's biggest fears, proving that their mistakes will cost them their dignity. Because one of the reasons why people are so afraid to speak and they're so terrified of showing up in English and that obviously affects their ability to build their fluency and their confidence is the fear of making mistakes. But it's not the mistakes that they're terrified of. It's people's reaction to their mistakes. It's the fear of experiencing exactly what you and everyone else in the comments mocking Marina are doing to Marina. So now, with the attempt of helping your audience learn correct English, what you're actually doing is sending the following messages. Mistakes are bad. People will make fun of you if you make mistakes. Native speakers don't like it when you make mistakes. You're not worthy of success if your English is not perfect. There is only one way to speak English like us, and there is no variety whatsoever. If you make mistakes in English, you shouldn't dare to do something publicly. You should definitely not teach on YouTube. If you make mistakes or. Or if your pronunciation is not 100% native. So now just imagine someone watching this video thinking, if someone like Marina, who's a lot more fluent than me, is making so many mistakes and being criticized for them publicly, what does that mean about my English? Do you really think your videos or these types of videos would drive them to be courageous speaking, speak up and take a chance? Would it help them actually use what they learned with you? Or would it just contribute to the illusion of learning, teaching them something they won't have the courage or opportunity to use? Or you know what? Think of a non native English speaking teacher watching this video, hoping to start a YouTube channel in English. A teacher who is already battling discrimination and bias and imposter syndrome due to the obvious preference for native speaking teachers in language institutions, schools and on YouTube. Does this video send the message that everyone has a place on YouTube, non native speakers included, even if they don't have a native speaking counterpart on the screen? Or does it say back off unless your English is perfect? And on a personal note, as a non native speaker myself, whose English is far from perfect, I mean seriously, I can go through my videos and ask myself questions like did I really pronounce an S here? Or where did that article go? Because that's what happens when you speak fast and the energy of speaking is a little stronger than your ability to articulate it. So when I was thinking of making this video, I thought, what if the grammar police decides to come after me next? Now of course I didn't let that thought stop me, but if this happened five years ago when I was first starting out, not only I'd never dare to say anything against this right, but I'd also be terrified of posting anything that's less than perfect. It would really inhibit my ability to share and post and be prolific. That would have necessarily meant not publishing content as much as I did, which would have led to me not being here and where I am today, having a life I love, a community I adore, and and a business that changes lives. If I let perfection stop me, all of this would not have been possible. I want to say something to all of you who really enjoyed Marina's public humiliation and commented about her English and actually how much she's not bringing value in all of that. Not seeing that there is something so fundamentally wrong with this video. I invite you to be more mindful because what goes around comes around. Judgment towards others is often really a projection of the judgment that we have towards ourselves. And maybe the next time you'll need to speak English in public. You might remember this experience. And you're not going to want to be Marina. And you'll avoid speaking out of fear of being ridiculed. And that, my friend, will cost you. Your fluency will cost you opportunities and living the life that you want. So instead of bringing hate and shame to such situations, bring compassion and grace to those who are less than perfect. Focus on what matters and believe that this is what you deserve as well. When you fall short. You know, it's funny because on the English for Everyone Instagram account, it says we focus on American pronunciation and teach English just like you hear in real life. And the truth is, this is what English sounds like in real life. It is spoken with different sounds and different syntax. And yes, sometimes not according to grammar books, but it is spoken nonetheless. To conclude, please don't let videos like these deter you from speaking and showing up with your mistakes. Keep going. Your voice matters. The only way to make an impact in this world is by doing everything you can to express yourself, even when it's hard. Be mindful of how you respond to mistakes around you, to your mistakes, and and manage your judgment towards others and towards yourself. And if you encounter an account that makes you feel not good enough, unfollow it and call out bad behaviors. Let's make this space safer and better for everyone. Call out native speakerism and discrimination and do things that make you feel empowered and motivated. And as to you, Kevin and Lisa, you can do better. I recommend that you take down those videos and keep using your platform to do good in this world. Promote positivity over negativity, communication over perfection, community over competition. All right, thanks everyone for watching this episode. I would love to hear what you think. So please join the conversation in the comments below. You can also send me a private message on Instagram. I'm Hadar Accentsway. I am here to listen. Take care everyone, and I'll see you next week in the next video. Bye.