Hannah Keeley addresses the thought "I am the wrong parent for my children." She explains that self-doubt signals you care, not that you're failing. Bad parents feel arrogant about their choices. Your doubt is what pushes you to get better.
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I am the wrong parent for my children. The worst thing that a mom can believe. Now, here's the deal. We have to understand we have a brain, okay? A brain reacts to things in our environment. And it creates emotions. It's what we feel. And sometimes those emotions cause us to do things, cause us to yell, lose our patience, say things we wish we hadn't said. But understand. The enemy wants you to think my kids would be better off with a different mom. Right? That's what the enemy wants to believe you because he wants you to condemn yourself. When you condemn yourself, it takes you out of a position, position of power. Now it diminishes you. So I want to show you something that's so cool about this belief. If you were really, really and truly a bad mom, you wouldn't think this. You would be operating in pride. You would be operating in arrogance. So it's not that you're a bad mom. It's actually you're a good mom. And now that desire to be a better mom is going to lead you in the right direction.