This content was created by Heather Prince. This content was uploaded by Heather Prince. This is a YouTube video titled "If You’re Going Through a Breakup or Divorce — I Know the Nights When Your Chest Aches" (published 2025-10-09). It is a single-speaker, spoken-word guidance piece aimed primarily at women experiencing breakups or divorce, offering spiritual, emotional, and energetic explanations for why partners 'run' when relationships deepen. The speaker discusses trauma, nervous-system conditioning, soul growth, and healing practices, provides an affirmation, and promotes a free workbook called "Heartbreak to Wholeness" plus a paid 6-week course (starting on the 30th of September as mentioned in the talk).
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Hello, beautiful soul. If you're going through a breakup or a divorce right now, I just want to say, I see you. I know the nights where your chest aches. I know the overthinking, the questioning, the was it me spiral, but there's one question I keep hearing from women in my community that cuts right to the bone. Why did they run when it started to feel real? Today I'm going to share the truth spiritually, emotionally, and energetically so you can start to release the shame, understand the pattern, and step into your healing. Now I'm going to talk about the truth about why they run. So here it is, this big truth bomb. Most people can only meet you as deeply as they've met themselves. So when the relationship starts feeling real, not just romance, not just routine, but real vulnerability, it activates their unprocessed trauma. For some, that looks like shutting down. For others, they sabotage. And yes, some simply walk away, not because they didn't care, but because the intimacy demanded more than they could give. This is especially painful when you're going through a breakup or or a divorce and you thought you had built something solid. You gave years of your life, you nurtured, you stayed, you held the weight and just when you needed them to show up fully, they backed away. Now I'm going to talk about why your pain may feel So intense because breakups at this stage of life hit differently. You're not in your 20s, you're not just dating around, you built a life, you shared memories, finances, kids, a home, and when it ends, especially if they run from the emotional reality, you're left not just grieving the relationship, but grieving the version of yourself that held it all together. You start questioning, was I not enough? Did I miss the signs? Why do I keep attracting people who can't stay? Let me say this with love and fire. This pain isn't just about them, it's your soul saying, No more repeating old patterns. It's time to heal the root. Now I'm going to share with you the spiritual pattern that's underneath this. Spiritually, when someone walks away, as things get deeper, it's often because your energy is rising, evolving, awakening, and they can't match it. Not because you did something wrong, but because the contract is now complete. Yes, it hurts, but sometimes the break is the breakthrough you've been too scared to choose for yourself. And here's the kicker. If you've spent years holding space for someone, Who couldn't meet you emotionally, financially, spiritually. Your nervous system has been trained to tolerate lack. It's time to recalibrate your energy field. This is the deep work I do with women, clearing the love blocks, the karmic vows, the trauma loops, So you stop attracting runners and finally call in someone who's emotionally safe and spiritually equal. So what does healing actually look like? Now, true healing after heartbreak isn't just about moving on, it's about moving inward. It's The quiet radical decision to say, I will not carry this pattern into my next relationship. I will become the woman who chooses herself deeply, fully, every single time. I am safe to be soft and I'm worthy of being seen. You don't have to figure it out alone. Start with my free ebook, a workbook. It's a— on my website, it's Heartbreak to Wholeness. It's a beautiful guide to help you reflect, release, and rewire the part of you still waiting to be chosen. You can grab it in the description below or in my bio, and if you're ready to go deeper, I have a powerful 6-week course starting on the 30th of September. It's designed for women like you who are done with crumbs and ready for conscious love. Now, I know how much all of this hurts. I've been there— divorced, broken, unsure if I could ever open my heart again. But let me tell you what I know now. This pain is not the end of your story. It's the portal into your healing, your wholeness, and your next great love, the one that starts with you. So please comment below and let me know where you're at in your healing journey. Let's create a sacred space here. No shame, No performance, just truth and love, and don't forget to subscribe. Your soul deserves this. I'm going to leave you with an affirmation that you can repeat again and again. I release the past with love. I am open to healing, to peace, and to a love that meets me fully.
