What LOVE beliefs are holding you back?

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And welcome to this Lunch and Learn where we're going to be looking at What love beliefs are holding you back? Today we will look at, is love after a breakup even possible? Because after a serious and committed relationship ends, you begin to have weird thoughts swirling through your mind about the future, and first comes the hurt and the pain of having gone through Then comes the blame towards yourself, your ex, and others that caused the breakup. And finally comes the sad and lonely thoughts about your future, along with your fears that you will never love again after a breakup. And I can personally attest to many of these common beliefs that came in and out of my life after my divorce, and I think that the belief that I held about the future was that I would be alone again for the rest of my life and that no one would ever love me again because I'd been with my, my ex from before my 16th birthday and we were together for 34 years. And it's at points like that that you begin to ask yourself, what's the point of living? And what's the point of life? In this mini Lunch and Learn, I will share some of the most common beliefs that I have heard from all the women I've spoken to as they thought about finding love again after a breakup, and these might be thoughts that are whirling around in your mind too. So let's look at this belief. I will never find love again and be alone forever. Just because one person ended the relationship with you, you believe that you won't find someone and be alone the rest of your life. You think love will pass you by and you'll spend the rest of your life by yourself, withering away into oblivion and dying a peaceful death Surrounded by loyal furry friends. No one will like me or love me again. Since your ex didn't like you and fell out of love with you, you believe the other 7 billion people in the world are also going to dismiss you for the terrible person you are. Love only happens once in your life. It happened, now it's over. And you will be living in solitude for several more decades. No one will accept me once they see the real me. You got to know someone, spend years with them, and were in a relationship with them. Since you believe that something is wrong with you and you scared your ex away, you believe that you will scare everyone else away too. Once people get to know the real you, they will run for the hills. There is something permanently damaged about you that no one can accept you for who you are once they get to know you. And here's another belief: I am permanently broken. Once again, your relationship ending with your ex will help you see that you have issues and Serious ones that you have developed since a child or through other life trauma. You'll realize that you're permanently broken or there is something so flawed with you that no one will want you ever again. This is not a temporary condition. You were cursed from birth to be broken and unlovable. Well, there's always the next life. There are no good people out there. You take all your previous relationships and all of your recent bad dates to conclude there is absolutely no good people out there. Everyone is boring, a liar, or just not your cup of tea. Why even bother dating when people are bad, unavailable, uninterested, boring, liars, whatever? I will repeat the mistakes of the past. You made many mistakes in this past relationship which you hold yourself solely responsible for. You ruined a perfectly good relationship with a perfectly good person. You feel like you're an immature, unworthy, cruel person who causes massive pain and hurt to the people they love. I would choose the wrong person again. You made a mistake in choosing your previous partner You are pretty much guaranteed to pick someone just as bad the next time round. Since you did such a poor choice of choosing someone compatible, you believe that you're going to draw someone into your life who's just as lousy and bad for you. Because love doesn't hurt, loving the wrong person does. If I don't know myself, how could I know what I want in a partner? After the tsunami of a breakup, you have lost a sense of self, a sense of purpose, and a sense of being. You don't even know who you are and what you want out of life. You're so lost, how could you possibly be clear on who you're looking for in a partner? I don't want to go through heartbreak again. You've been through it once, And it was more unpleasant than a visit to the dentist. You cried in bed for months, never went out in public, and felt like digging a deep hole and hiding out in it for years. You've experienced serious heartbreak and similar to heart attacks, and getting your wisdom teeth pulled once is enough. I don't want to feel unworthy again. Your ex made you feel terrible about yourself. They made you question your self-worth and your confidence. You felt so terrible about yourself as a person that you would never let anyone do this to you again by having another love after a breakup. So you're going to have high walls around your heart and make sure that getting to your heart is going to be 80 times harder than fighting with Mike Tyson. You would rather push people away hide from people and make people angry at you than allowing someone to get close enough to you to make you feel unworthy. To find love after a breakup, don't hesitate to contact me on email. I'm heather@heatherprince.co.uk. So I'd like to hear from you about which of these beliefs most resonate with you, because I know that having worked with many, many ladies, that some of these beliefs have stopped them from raising their vibe and aligning themselves to meet their true soulmate. Did any of those beliefs resonate with you? Is that what you've been thinking? 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Oh well, so there you go. 10 different beliefs and the thoughts that go along with it that keep us stuck. So if you're out there and you're dating and you've got one or more of those beliefs running, or if you've gone through a divorce, if you're going through a breakup right now, if you're separated and any of that relates to you, don't hesitate to reach out because there is a solution to the belief, and there is a possibility of you letting go of that old belief and replacing it with a more realistic, positive, future-focused belief that can bring you aligned with your ideal soulmate. And if that's what you can believe can happen, then I can show you the way forward. So thank you so much for listening. It's been an absolute pleasure to share this mini Lunch and Learn with you. If you're watching on YouTube, you can see the subscribe button below where you'll be notified when there are further lives and further videos posted. If you're in my Facebook group, Thank you so much for being in my Facebook group. Um, I am here to serve you, so do please put suggestions in the comments of what other subjects you would like, as well as letting me know whether any of those beliefs resonate with you. And if you're watching in on the Rootmaster page, uh, it's a pleasure that you've come along, um, and watched this video. Just put Hashtag replay and, um, let me know whether the subject was, uh, resonating with you. Have a great day everyone and enjoy the sunshine if you're in the UK, and if you're on holiday elsewhere, wishing you lots of fun. Sending much love.

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