+1 #614: Trust Thyself

Hi, this is Brian. Welcome back to another Optimize plus one. In our last plus one we talked about the fact that as per Seneca's wisdom, we need to let go of the world's opinion of you. It's always unsettled and divided. Today I want to talk about the fact that we need to know that we'll never be able to please everyone, all the time. Knowing this is one of the hallmarks of both leadership and creativity. Phil Stutts describes this quality of leadership as being willing to tolerate what he calls hatred and misunderstanding. It's really hard to do, which is one of the reasons why so few people have the courage to lead. Eric Butterworth talks about this in his classic book Spiritual Economics. He quotes Harry Truman to bring his point home. Here's how Truman put it. I quote, how far would Moses have gone if he had taken a poll in Egypt? What would Jesus Christ have preached if he had taken a poll in the land of Israel? What would have happened to the Reformation if Martin Luther had taken a poll? It isn't polls or public opinion of the moment that counts. It's right and wrong and leadership. Now, in a world so confused about right and wrong and truth and lies and virtue and vice, it's especially important for us to step up with grounded, respectful clarity and have the moral courage to speak and to live our truths. So today's plus one, what's true for you? Like deeply, soul achingly true. Are you living in integrity with that? As Emerson tells us, trust thyself, every heart of vibrates to that iron string. And as I've mentioned before and promised to mention again and again, he also tells us to be prepared for the backlash. Even in 1841 when Emerson wrote self reliance, he knew that for your nonconformity society will whip you with its displeasure. He tells us that it takes something godlike in ourselves to to trust ourselves as our own taskmasters. Let's have that level of courage today.