Break That Relationship NOW (Before It Breaks You)

Hesed Ojieh warns that if your partner has no stake in the relationship, end it now. A lopsided partnership where only one person has something to lose will cost you a decade of recovery and trauma. A broken engagement is better than a divorce.
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Ese edo je. Listen to me. I want you to listen to me very carefully because I'm about to share with you something that will change your life. I know what I'm saying. I'm spiritual. I'm a spiritual person. I understand the laws of the spiritual. I understand the laws of the natural. So I'm going to help you. You need my help. So I want you to open your spirit man. I know this is not for everybody, but my spirit is burdened that somebody listening to me, this is a word for you for 2026. 2026. You missed it in '24, you missed it in '25, in '26 I don't want you to miss it. I'm going to help you, I'm going to help you. Listen, this is the instruction. As soon as you can. If you're in a relationship, if you are in a relationship right now as we speak where the other person has nothing to lose, has nothing to lose, no stake in the relationship— let me go deeper and explain. Every time you break up, you're the one trying to fix the problem. You're the one trying to pursue to make the relationship work. You're always the one trying to make relationship work. The other person has no stake. They have nothing to lose. They don't have any skin in the game. I beg you, let me help you break that relationship. Break it immediately. Break it immediately. Immediately. You say, why? Because in such relationships, you are the target. You are the target, and if you continue, it's a question of time, that relationship will break. And when it breaks, it will leave you traumatic. Some people don't have anything to invest, to invest, and it could take you 10 years to come out of it. The price you will eventually pay can destroy you forever. Let me tell you, relationships are for stakeholders. Relationships are for stakeholders. If you have nothing to put down in a relationship, don't get into it. If the person has nothing to put other than I love you, I love you, I want you, you are the target in the relationship. There must be stakeholder. If a relationship is going to work, they must have skin in the game. They must understand that if I get into this relationship, I cannot afford for this relationship to break. So they put everything they can. Some people don't have anything to offer. Don't allow them in your Twin 26. They are diabolical. You are the target and the price is too much. It will cause you to lose direction. It will cause you to lose your place. Break— if you're in a relationship with anybody that has nothing to lose in the relationship, break it. If you are in a relationship where your partner has no stake in relationship, end it immediately. A broken engagement is better than a divorce. A broken engagement is better than torment. A broken engagement is better than consistent, consistent quarrel and shouting. End such relationships. You are the target. Don't be an enemy to yourself. If this continues, there's a price, I'm telling you. I know what I'm saying. Love is not a stake in any relationship. Love is not a stake in a relationship. If all they have is love, is all you have is love, that relationship is not for you. There's a lot of things, resources that are greater than love. Break it, break it. I permit you to break it so you can have a fresh new beginning. This is your year. Be encouraged.











