Worrying about missing a car payment doesn't protect you, it sabotages you. Obsessing over failure mentally aligns you with it, making the missed payment more likely. Stop the anxiety loop and focus on action instead.
You get it, right? So there's no thinking that is free, no worry that is free. Are you there? So what about when you respond to concerns? This— oh, I don't know if we can make the car note this month. You will never make the car note. If you make it this month, you make it next month. Maybe you make it next month, you make it the other month, because you already partner with the devil not to pay the car note because you thought about the car note not being paid.
